"Denying yourself sex that you would like to be having is kind of silly. We can't always have all the kinds of sex that we want, so it often makes sense to take what you can get and enjoy it for what it is."
"Your boyfriend's hard line may strike you as unfair, selfish, or any number of negative things. If he hasn't explained his position well, that can add to the resentment that comes from you being denied what you want."
A person enjoys threesomes but faces a dilemma as their boyfriend only wants a threesome with another woman. The boyfriend, despite being bisexual, is not open to sharing with another man. The individual feels it's unfair to give up their preference for two men while the boyfriend pursues his fantasy. The advice emphasizes the importance of respecting boundaries while also enjoying the experiences available, suggesting that denying oneself pleasure for principle may not be the best approach.
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