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Psychology says people who apologize constantly without realizing it are more damaged than they appear - because they internalize blame and absorb conflict, a survival response from childhood, which never switches off even when they're safe - Silicon Canals

Excessive apologizing often stems from childhood experiences of mistreatment and can lead to chronic self-blame in adulthood.

Mindfulness

fromSilicon Canals

6 days ago

I'm 37 and I just caught myself apologizing to a waiter for sending back the wrong order - and I realized I've been managing other people's discomfort my entire adult life and calling it good manners - Silicon Canals

Apologizing for others' mistakes reflects a deeper pattern of avoiding discomfort and maintaining harmony, often at the expense of one's own voice.

Psychology

fromSilicon Canals

1 week ago

I'm 37 and my daughter asked me why I apologize to furniture when I bump into it, and I realized I've been rehearsing deference to inanimate objects because somewhere in childhood I learned that taking up space required an apology. - Silicon Canals

Compulsive apologizing often stems from childhood experiences where one's presence was seen as a source of tension or conflict.

fromBustle

5 months ago

These 3 Zodiac Signs Would Probably Apologize To A Telephone Pole

How many times do you say "sorry" throughout the day? When you stop to think about it, you might realize the word sneaks into almost every sentence - often without you realizing it. A quick apology might slip out as you reach to grab your coffee in a cafe, and another as you move past someone to squeeze out the door, and then again as a jogger practically runs you over on the sidewalk.

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fromPsychology Today

10 months ago

Too Many Apologies: Why It Happens and What to Do About It

Frequent apologies can subtly affect how others perceive your confidence and self-assurance.

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Psychology says people who apologize constantly without realizing it are more damaged than they appear - because they internalize blame and absorb conflict, a survival response from childhood, which never switches off even when they're safe - Silicon Canals

I'm 37 and I just caught myself apologizing to a waiter for sending back the wrong order - and I realized I've been managing other people's discomfort my entire adult life and calling it good manners - Silicon Canals

I'm 37 and my daughter asked me why I apologize to furniture when I bump into it, and I realized I've been rehearsing deference to inanimate objects because somewhere in childhood I learned that taking up space required an apology. - Silicon Canals

These 3 Zodiac Signs Would Probably Apologize To A Telephone Pole

Too Many Apologies: Why It Happens and What to Do About It

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