#bad-faith

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fromSilicon Canals
2 hours ago

Most people don't realize that the dishonest people in their lives rarely lie about facts - they lie about their intentions, and that specific distinction is why you keep feeling confused rather than simply hurt - Silicon Canals

Intention lies involve sharing true facts with hidden motives, making them difficult to detect.
Law
fromBoston.com
15 hours ago

Melrose man charged with stealing hundreds of thousands from clients, prosecutors say

A Melrose lawyer faces multiple charges for embezzling client funds and practicing law while suspended.
SF politics
fromPadailypost
1 day ago

Opinion: A DA shouldn't be using his office this way

Allegations against DA Jeff Rosen suggest unethical fundraising linked to prosecution of pro-Gaza protesters, raising concerns about political neutrality in law enforcement.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

I stopped explaining myself when I apologize and the reactions taught me exactly which people in my life had been treating my explanations as retractions. To them, sorry with a reason attached meant sorry didn't really count, and sorry without one meant I was finally admitting fault on their terms. - Silicon Canals

Apologies without explanations reveal who truly listens and who seeks loopholes.
#ai-ethics
#hypocrisy
Law
fromwww.amny.com
1 day ago

Restaurateur and friend of Eric Adams pleads not guilty to insurance fraud, alongside 2 men previously sued by GEICO | amNewYork

Zhan Petrosyants and two businessmen were indicted for insurance fraud and money laundering related to fraudulent claims against GEICO.
#trust
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Relationships

9 phrases that immediately make people trust you less, and most people use at least 3 of them daily without realizing the damage - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Relationships

9 phrases that immediately make people trust you less, and most people use at least 3 of them daily without realizing the damage - Silicon Canals

#marriage
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 day ago

I Told My Friend Some Private Things About My Wife. Now I'm in Big Trouble.

Maintaining long-term friendships can be challenging when past grievances affect perceptions in a marriage.
from24/7 Wall St.
2 days ago
Relationships

John Delony's Blunt Verdict for Wife Whose Husband Hides Funds: 'The Marriage Y'all Had Is Over'

Financial opacity and unequal accountability in marriage can lead to serious trust issues and potential legal conflicts.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 day ago

I Told My Friend Some Private Things About My Wife. Now I'm in Big Trouble.

Maintaining long-term friendships can be challenging when past grievances affect perceptions in a marriage.
Relationships
from24/7 Wall St.
2 days ago

John Delony's Blunt Verdict for Wife Whose Husband Hides Funds: 'The Marriage Y'all Had Is Over'

Financial opacity and unequal accountability in marriage can lead to serious trust issues and potential legal conflicts.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

Psychology says people who command the most respect in a room aren't the loudest or most confident - they're the ones who can disagree without making others feel stupid for having believed something different - Silicon Canals

Respectful disagreement fosters genuine influence and encourages open dialogue.
Philosophy
fromTheregister
1 week ago

Calling out corporate BS? There's a steaming pile to aim for

Corporate jargon impresses those least equipped for analytical thinking, confirming biases while also serving essential functions in specific contexts.
Law
fromemptywheel
6 days ago

Harmeet Dhillon's Minion Confirms She Lied about the Eighth Circuit - emptywheel

Josh Zuckerman, a young lawyer, is involved in prosecuting the Don Lemon case amid controversies within the DOJ's Civil Rights Division.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
4 days ago

New Research: Some People Really Do Fall for Corporate BS

Employees impressed by corporate gibberish perform poorly in decision-making and confuse it with business savvy.
World politics
Portraying leaders as evil symbols justifies intervention while obscuring underlying political structures that enabled their rise, perpetuating cycles of instability.
Law
fromABA Journal
1 week ago

Drug convictions bar lawyer from bench but not from practicing law

Felony drug convictions prevent lawyer from becoming a judge but allow him to continue practicing law in Montana.
NYC real estate
fromCurbed
3 weeks ago

How Much Can a Broker Really Lie to Me?

Brokers in New York City rental markets can legally mislead tenants about lease status, though such practices are ethically questionable and exploit the competitive housing market.
#business-ethics
Marketing
fromwww.housingwire.com
3 weeks ago

The ANTM Trap: When smart leaders with good intentions still fail the IRL ethics test

Business success requires balancing achievement with ethical leadership practices; methods matter as much as results in sustainable management.
Philosophy
fromFast Company
1 month ago

How leaders can make ethical choices when the rules fall short

Legal compliance alone does not ensure ethical business practices; companies must embed values-based decision-making beyond regulatory requirements to avoid ethical blind spots.
Marketing
fromwww.housingwire.com
3 weeks ago

The ANTM Trap: When smart leaders with good intentions still fail the IRL ethics test

Business success requires balancing achievement with ethical leadership practices; methods matter as much as results in sustainable management.
Philosophy
fromFast Company
1 month ago

How leaders can make ethical choices when the rules fall short

Legal compliance alone does not ensure ethical business practices; companies must embed values-based decision-making beyond regulatory requirements to avoid ethical blind spots.
Miscellaneous
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

I started paying attention to who in my office apologizes before asking a question and the pattern maps almost perfectly onto who was raised in a household where curiosity was treated as disobedience. - Silicon Canals

People who grew up in households where questioning authority was discouraged tend to apologize before asking questions in professional settings, while those without this background ask directly.
Philosophy
fromAbove the Law
2 weeks ago

You Can't Salvage A Bad Judge By Calling Them Postmodern - Above the Law

Postmodern analysis offers useful concepts for understanding contemporary disenchantment with traditional meaning systems, exemplified by judicial figures like Lawrence VanDyke who adopt unconventional approaches to legal writing.
Law
fromABA Journal
2 weeks ago

Fake lawyer who used real bar number to practice law pleads guilty

A man in Las Vegas pleaded guilty to impersonating a lawyer using another attorney's bar number.
Business
fromHarvard Business Review
1 month ago

What to Do When Your Board Is Meddling in Operational Work

Boards are increasingly adopting operational roles, blurring governance and management boundaries through private equity-style monitoring as economic uncertainty and AI disruption intensify.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Why Does Passive-Aggressive Drama Flourish in Divorce?

Ending a marriage involves overt and covert problems, impacting emotional health and future relationships for all involved.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

What's Behind the Fake Review

Fake content spreads rapidly due to emotional triggers and biases, necessitating critical thinking over social proof in decision-making.
#workplace-ethics
Careers
fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago

My Friend Helped Me Get Work When I Needed It. I Hate What I'm About to Do to Him.

Accept the full-time job offer despite feeling guilty about your friend Barry who referred you, as career opportunities are scarce and you should prioritize your own employment needs.
Careers
fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago

My Friend Helped Me Get Work When I Needed It. I Hate What I'm About to Do to Him.

Accept the full-time job offer despite feeling guilty about your friend Barry who referred you, as career opportunities are scarce and you should prioritize your own employment needs.
Philosophy
fromThe Philosopher
3 weeks ago

On Cancelling and Repair Revisited

Restorative justice in academia requires perpetrators to genuinely restore victims rather than merely rehabilitate their own reputations through aggressive legal tactics.
Remote teams
fromUNILAD Tech
1 month ago

Cop fired after being caught using 'deceitful' work-from-home hack

A police officer was terminated and banned from law enforcement after using a photo frame device to fake activity on her work-from-home laptop by generating artificial keystrokes.
Law
fromAbove the Law
2 weeks ago

People Often Confuse One Attorney For Another - Above the Law

Lawyers can minimize mistaken identity issues by clarifying their location and practicing due diligence in communication.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Shaming Someone Isn't the Same as Holding Them Accountable

Shaming asserts superiority, silences dissent, and often backfires, perpetuating social control and distorting moral understanding.
fromAbove the Law
1 month ago

Discovery As Truth-Seeking: Win Hard Without Playing Hide-The-Ball - Above the Law

Effective discovery requires more than compliance - it requires strategy. Litigators can balance expansive discovery rights and privacy concerns without slowing cases down through practical, results-focused approaches that consider proportionality, electronically stored information management, and the specific discovery rules applicable to their jurisdiction.
Intellectual property law
#manipulation
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago
Psychology

Nobody warns you that the fakest people you'll ever meet won't be the obvious ones - they'll be the ones who remember your birthday, ask about your kids, and make you feel seen right up until the moment their kindness stops being useful to them - Silicon Canals

Relationships
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

5 Manipulation Tactics You Might Not See Until It's Too Late

Gaslighting, guilt-tripping, moving the goalposts, and triangulation are manipulative tactics that undermine reality and self-worth in relationships.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

Nobody warns you that the fakest people you'll ever meet won't be the obvious ones - they'll be the ones who remember your birthday, ask about your kids, and make you feel seen right up until the moment their kindness stops being useful to them - Silicon Canals

Fake niceness can be a strategic manipulation to create indebtedness rather than genuine connection.
Tech industry
fromTheregister
1 month ago

Contractor held hostage by client who asked for wrong fix

A field engineer completed a server board replacement successfully, but was detained at the datacenter exit when the client claimed an unresolved problem despite the admin's earlier confirmation that everything worked.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

The Secret to Ending All Wars Is the Truth We Already Know

All major wisdom traditions independently teach the same core truth: love your neighbor as yourself, making this the fundamental target of human existence and the antidote to war.
Law
fromwww.bbc.com
2 weeks ago

Saleswoman faked doctor's note about cancer care

A saleswoman admitted to perverting the course of justice by fabricating evidence including fake doctor's notes, false police emails, and CCTV claims across two failed employment tribunal cases involving sexual harassment allegations.
fromemptywheel
1 month ago

Morality is a Long Game - emptywheel

He took it, managed to decipher my terrible penmanship, and wrote me a reply. I didn't ask him weighty questions about politics, I think I probably asked his favorite color. People's favorite color was a major interest for me when I was eleven. He wrote some questions for me, (perhaps also my favorite color, which was blue.) and soon we were in a conversation, the kind of sweet conversation where a thoughtful grown-up pays attention to a child.
US politics
fromIPWatchdog.com | Patents & Intellectual Property Law
1 month ago

When Lawyers Need Help: Supporting Colleagues While Protecting Clients

The legal profession rewards endurance, precision and control. It also quietly normalizes stress, isolation and overextension. For patent practitioners and other IP lawyers, the pressures are uniquely acute: compressed prosecution deadlines, high-stakes litigation exposure, often unrealistic client-driven budget constraints, regulatory whiplash at the U.S. Patent and Trademark Office (USPTO), and increasingly complex technologies layered with global filing and prosecution strategy.
Intellectual property law
US news
fromThe New Yorker
1 month ago

The Betrayal of a Friend's False Testimony

A teenager's coerced confession during police interrogation led to three friends being imprisoned for murder, creating lifelong guilt he attempts to address through legal proceedings decades later.
Law
fromLos Angeles Times
2 weeks ago

California trial attorneys push bills to rein in 'bad actors' in legal industry

California trial lawyers support bills increasing penalties for attorneys who illegally solicit clients or allow hedge funds to control case strategy.
Careers
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Harriette Cole: I convinced myself I had to lie to get a job, and now I'm in trouble

Job seekers who embellish qualifications during interviews can develop impostor syndrome and struggle when hired, but can overcome gaps through mentorship, learning, and building genuine expertise.
Psychology
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 weeks ago

Office hookworms: how to deal with colleagues who steal all the credit

Office hookworms are colleagues who take credit for others' work and use passive-aggressive commentary to undermine peers; managing them requires changing your own behavior rather than theirs.
#legal-ethics
Law
fromAbove the Law
2 weeks ago

Legal Ethics Roundup: New DOJ Attorney Rule Sparks Opposition, Rebuke For Judge's 'Vulgar Barroom Talk,' Invisible Ethics For Lawmakers & More - Above the Law

Department of Justice attorneys are departing en masse due to pressure to ignore legal ethics rules, resulting in poorly prepared briefs, unprepared attorneys, and violated court orders.
Law
fromAbove the Law
2 weeks ago

Legal Ethics Roundup: New DOJ Attorney Rule Sparks Opposition, Rebuke For Judge's 'Vulgar Barroom Talk,' Invisible Ethics For Lawmakers & More - Above the Law

Department of Justice attorneys are departing en masse due to pressure to ignore legal ethics rules, resulting in poorly prepared briefs, unprepared attorneys, and violated court orders.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

How Gaslighters Con Their Partners into Believing Them

Gaslighting is deliberate manipulation where someone convinces you your memory is wrong, exploiting memory's natural fallibility to control partners in close relationships.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

How and Why We Cross Lines We Never Thought We Would

Gradual adaptation in relationships can imperceptibly shift personal boundaries, causing people to cross lines they once believed inviolable through a series of small, seemingly harmless adjustments.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

Why Respect Matters More Than We Realize

Respect in relationships requires honoring your partner's boundaries and separate identity; without it, relationships deteriorate regardless of love present.
fromFast Company
4 weeks ago

Why strong leaders lose credibility in high-stakes moments

What most leaders label as a content problem is actually a presence problem. Leaders often assume credibility rises and falls based on wording alone. In reality, credibility is shaped by executive presence, which reflects the signals leaders send about confidence, clarity, and authority before their ideas are fully heard.
Psychology
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago

Miss Manners: I claimed to have a conflict, and then I got caught

DEAR MISS MANNERS: I frequently attend team lunches and dinners with my immediate department members, both supervisors and associates. These dining experiences are mostly personal affairs and come after a week of hard teamwork. We work in an industry where we will be in one location for a few months, and then move on to another city. We all get along and have each other's back.
Dining
fromTerry Godier
2 months ago

Phantom Obligation

There's a particular kind of guilt that visits me when I open my feed reader after a few days away. It's not the guilt of having done something wrong, exactly. It's more like the feeling of walking into a room where people have been waiting for you, except when you look around, the room is empty. There's no one there. There never was.
UX design
Washington Nationals
fromTalkNats.com
1 month ago

Paul Toboni wants to be judged by his actions. But shouldn't you also be judged by what you say? | TalkNats.com

Paul Toboni pledged accountability and active roster moves before Spring Training, and fans expect concrete signings rather than verbal assurances.
Real estate
fromwww.housingwire.com
2 months ago

How are buyer broker agreements reshaping trust in real estate?

Buyer broker agreements exposed trust gaps by requiring early exclusivity and unclear compensation, prompting buyer hesitation and frustration.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

The Harm to Clients When Mental Health "Cures" are Promised

Unverified promises of psychological cures can create false hope and harm; treatment claims must be evidence-based, ethical, and framed with realistic expectations.
Media industry
fromPR Daily
2 months ago

Communicators say these are the hills they'll die on - PR Daily

Communicators must defend clarity, simplicity, business alignment, journalistic standards, and strategic agility while refusing unnecessary jargon, verbose releases, or disconnected plans.
fromLGBTQ Nation
1 month ago

Political pragmatism is not a moral failing. It may be the only thing that can save us. - LGBTQ Nation

He is not worthy of the presidency. He takes bribes blatantly. And now he's being a racist, blatantly. They were supposed to deport the dangerous criminals. They were not supposed to go after small children, storm schools, bring terror upon, you know, the little kids and the women and children, not just the immigrants in the school. All the children are scared.
US politics
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

A Small Business Owner Did Me Dirty. I'm Inclined to Ruin Her Life.

A customer seeking refund for undelivered merchandise should leave honest reviews but avoid coordinated campaigns to damage a business's reputation.
UX design
fromMedium
4 months ago

The Psychology Of Trust In A World Where Products Keep Breaking Promises

Frequent product changes that alter established user workflows erode trust and increase confusion, making adoption harder in B2B/SaaS environments.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

The Key to Unshakable Safety When Speaking the Truth

That is, a way to speak your truth, even when it's unwanted, that allows you to honor our understandable fear, and also consider your actual reality. It doesn't mean ignoring the potential consequences, but at the same time, not letting the fear dictate your behavior, with no alternatives other than silence or inauthenticity. In other words, how to heal the dread associated with being displeasing and disapproved of that stems from your conditioning, generational history and experience.
Business
fromFast Company
2 months ago

5 shifts every modern leader must make to build trust in the age of skepticism

Leaders must increase visible, personal accountability to rebuild trust—sharing authentic stories and values to connect people to organizational purpose.
Artificial intelligence
fromFast Company
1 month ago

Do you really know what 'agent' means? If not, you're putting your company at risk

The term 'AI agent' has been stretched to include many different systems, creating confusion that distorts public debate and hinders enterprise adoption and strategy.
Artificial intelligence
fromMedium
2 months ago

What if AI lies about you?

AI summaries improve convenience but can confidently present misinformation about people; interfaces must signal uncertainty and provide correction mechanisms.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

The Most Dangerous Negotiation of All

Domestic abuse functions as strategic power negotiation that erodes victims' alternatives, constrains choices, and makes leaving dangerous, complex, and often infeasible.
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

I'm finding it difficult to live up to my morals. How do I know when it's OK to compromise?

I'm finding it difficult living up to my morals where is the line between compromising a little, versus becoming complicit in what I don't agree with? I'm one of those people who believes we can each take a role in solving big problems, and that we should try to make things better where we can. For this reason, I've ended up working in public service and try to reduce how much meat I eat. I'm vegetarian 60% of the time, which is not perfect, but I believe doing something is better than doing nothing.
Philosophy
Careers
fromIrish Independent
1 month ago

Dear Vicki: I lied about my age when a colleague put me on the spot. How should I have reacted?

Age has no bearing on job ability and asking about it can reflect inappropriate workplace culture and potential ageism.
Law
fromAbove the Law
1 month ago

Legal Ethics Roundup: Judge Hid DUI, FTC On Law Firm DEI, Hostile Chambers, SCOTUS NDAs, AZ ABSs Critiqued & More - Above the Law

A surge of judicial ethics issues includes DOJ candor concerns, a probable-cause hostile-workplace finding against a judge, and scrutiny of investor-owned law firms.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Why Bluffing Isn't Always Just "Harmless" Fun

Bluffing is a widespread psychological tactic that escalates from opportunistic signaling to organized deception, enabling scams and fraud by exploiting trust and cognitive biases.
Psychology
fromFast Company
1 month ago

3 science-backed ways to measure integrity

Integrity strongly predicts job performance and leadership effectiveness because trust and ethical behavior enable cooperation, coordination, and sustained collaboration.
Law
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

My Boss Keeps Asking Me to Dock Money From My Own Paycheck. The Reasoning is Absurd.

Employees must be paid for time spent on work-related tasks, including resolving technical issues and retrieving equipment, under applicable wage-and-hour rules.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

Help! I Wanted to Extend a Simple Thank You to a Neighbor. But They Took Advantage of My Generosity.

Neighbor shoveled unexpected snow; host offered lunch but felt resentful when partner joined and ordered pricier items; host wants clear, fair repayment expectations.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Respect Is Not Fear

A revealing example is the concept of " grudging respect."What is typically meant by the term is not respect at all but fear-based compliance. From a psychological perspective, behavior driven by fear is externally regulated; people comply to avoid negative consequences rather than because they feel heard, valued, or internally motivated. When someone obeys out of intimidation or pressure, the foundation for meaningful negotiation is absent (even if one party appears to win).
Psychology
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 months ago

Asking Eric: This neighbor seems nice but I hear she's a liar. Should I ignore her overtures?

I'm no judge but there seems to be a lot of hearsay happening here. The neighbor who gave you the warning was vague in a way that perhaps suggests discretion, but in reality, only muddies the waters. Either say something helpful (and objectively true) or say nothing at all; a blanket warning hews too close to gossip for my taste. If you want to be friends with this other neighbor, trust your judgment and proceed with caution, just as you would with anyone else.
Relationships
fromAbove the Law
2 months ago

AI In The Courtroom: Will We Trade The Rule Of Law For Efficiency's Sake? - Above the Law

It's not only law firms and legal departments that are adopting GenAI systems without fully understanding what they can and cannot do - court systems may also be tempted to adopt these tools to short circuit workloads in the face of limited resources. And that poses some risks and concerns to the rule of law, a notion that hinges on accuracy, fairness, and public perception.
Law
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

I Just Found Out My Wife Has Been Lying to Me About What She Does All Day. This Is the Last Straw.

Financial infidelity—hiding unemployment and spending family funds—can destroy trust, damage credit, and justify legal action to protect children and finances.
fromAbove the Law
2 months ago

Lawyers Shouldn't Perform Favors For Clients And Expect Additional Work - Above the Law

Lawyers and clients often develop years-long relationships during which clients and lawyers cultivate connections that often transcend the traditional attorney-client framework. During this relationship, clients may ask for favors in the form of favorable billing terms or other advantages that the lawyer is uniquely able to provide. Although it is acceptable to perform such favors for clients, lawyers should not do so under the assumption that it will result in additional work.
Law
Relationships
fromInsideHook
1 month ago

The One Thing You Should Not Do If You Cheat on Someone

Norwegian biathlete Sturla Holm Lægreid publicly confessed to cheating on his girlfriend during an Olympic interview, prompting widespread social media backlash.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Will You Survive When You Tell the Truth?

Women can awaken to their needs, recognize emotional abuse, and progress through stages of truthing to reclaim autonomy despite fear and relational consequences.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

8 things you should never tolerate from someone who claims they 'care about you' - Silicon Canals

Consistent respectful actions, not convenient contact or boundary violations, indicate genuine care; recurring one-sided behavior should not be tolerated.
fromDefector
2 months ago

The Bride's Last Bribery Fund | Defector

There comes a time in everyone woman's life when she must decide if she is getting on the party bus or not. In this case, the party bus is a metaphor for the whole concept of bachelorette parties and all the nonsense and spiraling costs that are associated with the whole tradition. The party bus is also, in fact, a party bus, because how could you get the girls together for the Bride's Last Ride without an intermediate size bus loaded down with booze?
Relationships
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

Help! I've Told Everyone in My Life a Lie About My Family for Years. It's Finally Caught Up to Me.

Admit the fabricated orphanhood honestly, explain why you lied, and communicate empathy for your partner's feelings to rebuild trust.
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