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US news
fromBoston.com
12 hours ago

3-year-old immigrant suffered alleged sexual abuse during months in federal custody, family says

Delays in reunification led to a young girl suffering alleged sexual abuse in foster care after crossing the U.S.-Mexico border.
#parenting
fromSlate Magazine
1 day ago
Parenting

My Wife's Sister Dropped Her 1-Year-Old Twins With Us Due to a Family Emergency. When She Texted Us an Update, I Was Floored.

Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
4 days ago

My Daughter Has Been Framed for Something She Didn't Do. My Husband Thinks She Should Just Accept the Punishment.

Middle schoolers should be involved in decisions about their conflicts and how to address misunderstandings with peers and school authorities.
Parenting
fromScary Mommy
5 days ago

OK, So Work Becomes Less Of A Priority For *Everyone* After Having Kids, Right?

Having children often shifts priorities from career advancement to family time and financial security.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
6 days ago

My Husband Is Forbidding Our Son From a Teen Rite of Passage. His Reasoning Is Very Strange.

Parents should allow their children to explore personal expression through hairstyles, especially during teenage years, while navigating cultural considerations.
Parenting
fromScary Mommy
2 weeks ago

Why One Dad Thinks Every Parent Should "Leave The Damn Door Open" During Workouts

Parents deserve personal time, but leaving the door open can foster connection with children during that time.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
1 day ago

My Wife's Sister Dropped Her 1-Year-Old Twins With Us Due to a Family Emergency. When She Texted Us an Update, I Was Floored.

Renata's manipulative behavior has destroyed trust, justifying a refusal to provide future childcare.
Parenting
fromDefector
4 days ago

Rejoice, Tired Parents! Defector Will Raise Your Children Now | Defector

Defector launches a parenting advice column called Minor Dilemmas to address various parenting challenges and questions.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
4 days ago

My Daughter Has Been Framed for Something She Didn't Do. My Husband Thinks She Should Just Accept the Punishment.

Middle schoolers should be involved in decisions about their conflicts and how to address misunderstandings with peers and school authorities.
Parenting
fromScary Mommy
5 days ago

OK, So Work Becomes Less Of A Priority For *Everyone* After Having Kids, Right?

Having children often shifts priorities from career advancement to family time and financial security.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
6 days ago

My Husband Is Forbidding Our Son From a Teen Rite of Passage. His Reasoning Is Very Strange.

Parents should allow their children to explore personal expression through hairstyles, especially during teenage years, while navigating cultural considerations.
Parenting
fromScary Mommy
2 weeks ago

Why One Dad Thinks Every Parent Should "Leave The Damn Door Open" During Workouts

Parents deserve personal time, but leaving the door open can foster connection with children during that time.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

There's a generation of men who were taught that providing was the same as loving. And there's a generation of their children who spent years in therapy learning that those aren't the same thing, only to reach an age where they finally understand that for their fathers, inside the architecture they were given, it was. - Silicon Canals

Emotional estrangement between fathers and children stems from generational differences in expressing love and vulnerability.
NYC parents
fromPsychology Today
3 days ago

Is Mandated Reporting Racist? What Families Must Know

Low reporting standards and systemic racism lead to unjust CPS reports, disproportionately affecting Black and Brown families.
#childcare
Science
fromNature
1 week ago

Daily briefing: Women's academic careers are knocked by parenthood much more than men's

Childcare responsibilities significantly hinder women's academic careers compared to men's, impacting job opportunities and publication rates.
Science
fromNature
1 week ago

Daily briefing: Women's academic careers are knocked by parenthood much more than men's

Childcare responsibilities significantly hinder women's academic careers compared to men's, impacting job opportunities and publication rates.
#child-care
fromGothamist
6 days ago
NYC parents

New Yorkers are thinking about having kids with hope Mamdani will make child care free

New York City
fromNew York Post
4 days ago

Mamdani's outrageous child-care boondoggle shows who comes first in NYC

Mamdani's 'free' child-care center costs taxpayers $10 million to renovate and $2.3 million annually, serving only 40 children.
NYC parents
fromGothamist
4 days ago

NYC parents looking for child care have a new tool at their fingertips

New York City launched a searchable map for parents to easily find over 10,000 child care programs.
NYC parents
fromGothamist
6 days ago

New Yorkers are thinking about having kids with hope Mamdani will make child care free

Expansion of free child care in NYC is encouraging parents to consider having more children.
LGBT
fromAdvocate.com
5 days ago

Trans people are here to stay, no matter who tries to erase us

Understanding the gender spectrum and dismantling misconceptions about trans identities is crucial for acceptance and recognition of diverse gender experiences.
SF LGBT
fromwww.advocate.com
5 days ago

Advocate newsletter 3/31/26

Trans people and gender-nonconforming individuals embody the beauty of humanity and resist erasure through their stories and actions.
Public health
fromwww.npr.org
5 days ago

Babies are an afterthought in the birthright citizenship case, advocates say

Birthright citizenship impacts every baby born in America, providing them with immediate access to essential support and services.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
6 days ago

What Estranged Parents Wish Others Understood

Estrangement from adult children creates a unique, unresolved grief for parents, marked by ambiguity and a lack of social recognition.
Right-wing politics
fromThe New Yorker
6 days ago

The Camps Promising to Turn You-or Your Son-Into an Alpha Male

Nick Adams promotes a vision of masculinity that appeals to young men, emphasizing traditional male roles and rejecting notions of toxic masculinity.
Health
fromenglish.elpais.com
1 week ago

A healthy pregnancy doesn't depend solely on the woman: why the father's health is crucial for child development

Father's health and behaviors significantly impact pregnancy outcomes and child development, challenging the traditional focus solely on the mother.
fromAxios
1 week ago

Working moms are building community beyond parenting

"The idea of giving women a space to remember who they are - without trying to teach or fix them - is what resonates."
Women in technology
Parenting
fromScary Mommy
3 days ago

Is Your Kid's Friend A Good Influence? Experts Share 6 Green Flags

Positive friendships build confidence and happiness in children, providing essential support throughout their development.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
6 days ago

The Day I Realized My Son Wasn't Defiant, He Was Ashamed

Understanding a child's emotional state is crucial; shame can manifest as feelings of worthlessness, impacting behavior and communication.
UK politics
fromwww.independent.co.uk
2 weeks ago

I was back at work the next day paternity leave is a nightmare for dads like me'

The Independent provides crucial reporting on various issues, emphasizing the importance of accessible journalism funded by donations.
London politics
fromwww.bbc.com
2 weeks ago

Killed by the same abuser: Families demand answers

Family of missing woman Fiona Holm faced police inaction despite concerns about her boyfriend's behavior and previous violence.
#fatherhood
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
3 days ago

What, Exactly, Expectant Dads Fear in the Delivery Room

Expectant fathers often experience fear of childbirth, feeling helpless in the delivery room despite their desire to support their partners.
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago
Parenting

Nobody talks about why men in their thirties who are about to become fathers suddenly start calling their own dad more often - it's not closeness, it's an audit, they're going through every memory trying to separate what to repeat from what to bury and the silence between the calls is where most of the work is happening - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Parenting

9 things a truly good father does without ever needing to be asked-and most people only recognize them after he's gone - Silicon Canals

Parenting
fromPsychology Today
3 days ago

What, Exactly, Expectant Dads Fear in the Delivery Room

Expectant fathers often experience fear of childbirth, feeling helpless in the delivery room despite their desire to support their partners.
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago
Parenting

Nobody talks about why men in their thirties who are about to become fathers suddenly start calling their own dad more often - it's not closeness, it's an audit, they're going through every memory trying to separate what to repeat from what to bury and the silence between the calls is where most of the work is happening - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago
Parenting

9 things a truly good father does without ever needing to be asked-and most people only recognize them after he's gone - Silicon Canals

fromAbove the Law
2 weeks ago

Business Development Without The Babysitter: A Smarter Model For Working Mothers - Above the Law

Business development has never truly been about proximity to a bar cart. It is about trust, relevance, and consistency-all factors of relationship building which take time and patience. Working mothers who understand that distinction are often better positioned to build sustainable books of business than their peers who equate visibility with value.
Women
Social justice
fromwww.amny.com
2 weeks ago

Poet and children's defense advocate boosts off-ramps' in family court system | amNewYork

Jose Perez, a poet and activist who experienced foster care and incarceration, advocates for community-based programs and mentorship to break the foster care-to-prison pipeline.
fromFortune
2 weeks ago

Won't somebody think of the children? Advocacy group to spend $50 million to back Democrats pushing child care ahead of the midterms | Fortune

When child care can cost more than your rent or a mortgage, or you have to sacrifice a paycheck in order to be able to take care of a loved one, that can motivate how people vote. Each election cycle, we see candidates recognizing that more and more.
Healthcare
UK politics
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 weeks ago

Family courts in England and Wales not good enough' for women and children, minister says

Family courts in England and Wales will undergo a major overhaul to prioritize child welfare and reduce trauma for women and children.
NYC parents
fromBig Think
5 days ago

The quiet disappearance of the free-range childhood

Child protective services investigated a couple after their son rode his scooter to a nearby playground alone, leading to a finding of neglect.
Relationships
fromThe Atlantic
2 weeks ago

How to Save a Dying Friendship

Men have significantly lost the ability to maintain friendships, with 15% reporting no close friends in 2021 compared to 3% in 1990, contributing to a widespread epidemic of loneliness and isolation.
Psychology
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 weeks ago

My mother's best advice: go in to bat for the ones you love

A mother's greatest gift was allowing her child to make mistakes without judgment while quietly advocating behind the scenes, rather than offering direct advice.
LGBT
fromLGBTQ Nation
2 weeks ago

Anti-LGBTQ+ parents allowed to foster kids again in victory for right-wing groups - LGBTQ Nation

Vermont revised foster parent licensing policies to allow applicants with religious objections to LGBTQ+ identities after settling two lawsuits challenging the previous affirmation requirements.
Parenting
fromLGBTQ Nation
6 days ago

Adoption is a beautiful way to build a family. But it's not one-size-fits-all. - LGBTQ Nation

Adoption has various paths, each with unique processes, costs, and timelines, requiring thorough understanding before proceeding.
London politics
fromwww.bbc.com
2 weeks ago

'Why we want child abuse nursery held accountable'

Parents of children abused at a London nursery criticize Camden Council for refusing to investigate safeguarding failures, citing conflict of interest concerns.
UK news
fromwww.bbc.com
3 weeks ago

SEND reforms to 'strip away' children's legal protections, charity says

Government SEND reforms risk weakening legal protections for children with disabilities by replacing enforceable EHCPs with less robust Individual Support Plans tied to funding bands rather than individual needs.
Relationships
fromScary Mommy
2 weeks ago

All My Mom Friends Hate My Husband

Friends' critical observations about your husband may reflect their own biases, but could also reveal genuine relationship patterns you've normalized over time.
fromAdvocate.com
3 weeks ago

These moms are risking arrest to protect gender-affirming care for trans youth

Parents and grandparents of trans youth, plus their therapists and medical providers, are fed up after years of health care bans and hostile rhetoric. Those feelings are driving them to do things they've never done before - like plan to get arrested at a protest.
Social justice
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
5 days ago

Parental Burnout Is a Social Problem, Not a Personal Failure

Parental burnout has reached unprecedented levels, with over 40% of parents feeling exhausted and overwhelmed daily.
fromLos Angeles Times
1 month ago

Supreme Court: California parents may be told about their transgender child at school

The parents object that these policies prevent schools from telling them about their children's efforts to engage in gender transitioning at school unless the children consent to parental notification. The parents also take issue with California's requirement that schools use children's preferred names and pronouns regardless of their parents' wishes.
SF parents
Parenting
fromwww.businessinsider.com
1 week ago

When my daughter was born disabled, I had a hard time finding a Mom group that felt right for us

Building a support system is crucial for new mothers, especially when facing unexpected challenges like a child's disabilities.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

I raised my kids the way my father raised me - present for the big moments and missing for the small ones - and now I watch my son doing the same thing and don't know how to speak without saying everything at once - Silicon Canals

Generational patterns of prioritizing work over family relationships perpetuate through modeling, creating cycles that are difficult to break without conscious awareness and intervention.
Women in technology
fromwww.npr.org
1 month ago

Why supporting a shelter for women is now 'kind of radioactive'

U.S. foreign aid cuts have forced closure of women's shelters in Honduras, leaving abuse survivors without sanctuary or basic resources like food.
Parenting
fromwww.theguardian.com
6 days ago

Most gen Z fathers in Australia believe it's solely their job to provide financially, research finds

Younger fathers often hold traditional views on gender roles, prioritizing financial provision over caregiving responsibilities.
Mental health
fromSocial Media Explorer
1 month ago

Beyond the Clinic: Practical Support for New and Expecting Moms - Social Media Explorer

Prenatal care must address mental health and emotional resilience alongside medical monitoring, with peer support and practical community resources essential for maternal wellness.
Parenting
fromBuzzFeed
6 days ago

Women Are Getting Very, Very Honest About How Their Partner Changed After They Became A Mom

Postpartum experiences reveal varying partner behaviors, ranging from supportive to abusive.
NYC parents
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

When Protection Becomes Punishment

Mandated reporting trainings emphasize legal compliance over understanding how CPS functions as a policing mechanism that disproportionately harms marginalized families.
#parenthood
Parenting
fromMail Online
6 days ago

Having children DOESN'T make you happy, study claims

Having children does not significantly increase happiness or life satisfaction, and may even decrease relationship satisfaction.
Parenting
fromMail Online
6 days ago

Having children DOESN'T make you happy, study claims

Having children does not significantly increase happiness or life satisfaction, and may even decrease relationship satisfaction.
NYC parents
fromLGBTQ Nation
3 weeks ago

The moms who risked jail & deportation to fight for their trans kids - LGBTQ Nation

Three mothers were arrested protesting proposed Trump administration rules that would eliminate federal funding for gender-affirming care for minors at hospitals nationwide.
#paternity-leave
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Dads Battle Flexibility Stigma and Outdated Media Portrayals

One in five fathers fear taking paternity leave due to job security concerns and societal perceptions.
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Dads Battle Flexibility Stigma and Outdated Media Portrayals

One in five fathers fear taking paternity leave due to job security concerns and societal perceptions.
Relationships
fromThe Atlantic
1 month ago

How to Create an Equal Household

Gender scholars demonstrate better relationship equality practices than average individuals, yet persistent household management and mental load inequalities still affect their partnerships despite their expertise.
NYC parents
fromThe Mercury News
4 weeks ago

Letters: Meeting needs of mothers helps care for children

Meeting mothers' basic needs for menstrual products and diapers is essential for supporting child development and family stability, while automated license plate readers create risks for innocent drivers.
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

Dealing With a Dilemma of Co-Parenting

Co-parenting conflicts often escalate due to misinterpretations and assumptions about children's feelings, leading to unproductive arguments.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

Psychology says the reason your father never told you he was proud of you isn't that he wasn't - it's that his generation was taught that providing was the language of love, and he said it every day in ways you weren't listening for - Silicon Canals

Generational norms of emotional restraint can conceal consistent, practical care; recognizing everyday acts can reveal deep, nonverbal expressions of love and support.
US politics
fromThe Nation
1 month ago

Childcare Providers Around the Country Are Being Targeted by Vigilante Surveillance

False allegations about Somali-American daycares have sparked harassment, threats, in-person confrontations, and federal actions that harm families and childcare providers.
Left-wing politics
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

The right has won the family': why are there so few lefty momfluencers?

Polished mommy-influencer content soothes with domestic routines but sparks anxiety about creators' politics, driving a desire for algorithmic feeds that confirm progressive values.
Philosophy
fromApaonline
1 month ago

The Best Available Parent

Parental legal authority should be justified by the child's best interests and held by those who would benefit the child most through caregiving.
Miscellaneous
fromIndependent
2 months ago

Tusla logged child as having yearly visits with father who was actually dead, as report exposes ongoing failings

Tusla repeatedly fails court orders, leaving vulnerable children without allocated social workers.
Parenting
fromScary Mommy
2 weeks ago

For The Overwhelmed Moms Trying To Do It All, You Can Blame "Institutional Lag"

Afternoon chaos for working mothers stems from institutional lag—outdated systems designed for single-income households with stay-at-home parents that fail to accommodate modern dual-income families.
Public health
fromwww.aljazeera.com
2 months ago

Protecting children is a priority now is the time to prove it

A billion children suffer violence yearly; proven prevention strategies exist but urgent political action and scaled investments are required to meet 2030 targets.
UK news
fromwww.bbc.com
2 months ago

Families take legal action over nursery worker's abuse

A nursery worker filmed and sexually abused children; 46 families are suing the nursery for dismissing concerns and seeking full accountability.
New York City
fromwww.amny.com
1 month ago

Toddler allegedly beaten by Queens father dies days after horrific assault; My baby is gone,' mom mourns | amNewYork

A two-year-old boy named Maliek died after alleged severe beatings by his father, Dayvon Morrison, in a Queens homeless shelter.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

I'm 70 and I just realized the reason I never respected my father wasn't because he was a bad person - it was because I watched him let my mother carry everything, and somewhere around age twelve I decided that men who don't show up are just furniture with feelings, and I've carried that contempt into every relationship I've ever had - Silicon Canals

Unequal household labor distribution erodes respect and perpetuates generational patterns of resentment toward partners who avoid domestic responsibilities.
Women
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

Custody: The Secret History of Mothers by Lara Feigel why women still have to fight for their children

Child custody battles inflict deep, persistent trauma on mothers and children across history and cultures.
Psychology
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

When it comes to child custody, is the system failing families?

Adversarial family courts intensify parental conflict and harm children; a rebuttable legal presumption of equal parenting reduces harms and preserves children's relationships.
LGBT
fromLGBTQ Nation
2 months ago

Unsung heroes: 6 queer moms who revolutionized LGBTQ+ family building - LGBTQ Nation

Queer mothers created resources, networks, and services to increase representation, support, and access for LGBTQ+ family building amid legal and cultural barriers.
US politics
fromThe Mercury News
1 month ago

Letters: Bay Area must do better to protect our children

The community must shift investment from punishment to prevention, supporting youth with violence prevention, education, and safe public spaces.
fromThe Nation
2 months ago

If Something Happens to Me: A Letter to My Daughter

There are nights when we lie in your bed, fairy lights glowing above us, the city humming softly outside, and you tell me what has been sitting with you all day. Side by side under your pink quilt, you know I am all yours. It was during one of those nights when you asked me a question I couldn't answer right away.
Social justice
LGBT
fromLGBTQ Nation
1 month ago

Adoption vs. biological family building: What LGBTQ+ couples should consider - LGBTQ Nation

LGBTQ+ people can pursue family-building through biological methods or adoption, each with practical considerations and varied timelines.
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

There's No Such Thing as a Child Expert

No true parenting or child experts exist because children are unique, fallible, and inconsistent individuals; expertise in parenting strategies does not equate to understanding your specific child better than you do.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Who Gets to Be a Mother?

We'd been working together for years to make my medication regimen-treatment for schizoaffective disorder-safe for potential pregnancy. Under her care, I was tapering off an antidepressant known to cause respiratory distress and hypertension in a newborn. I'd been experiencing wild mood swings, even suicidal thoughts. My beloved doctor's eyes were sad. "I'm saying no to a pregnancy, Meg." Even in the moment, I understood her priority as a physician was to keep me safe. Still, part of me hated her.
Mental health
Parenting
fromBuzzFeed
3 weeks ago

Sterling K. Brown's Bleak Reason For Keeping His Sons Visible Online Has Exposed A Privilege That Most Never Consider

Sterling protects his children's privacy by prohibiting photographs during family outings to ensure they receive undivided parental attention and maintain anonymity for normal childhood experiences.
fromPinkNews | Latest lesbian, gay, bi and trans news | LGBTQ+ news
1 month ago

Parent forced to home school trans child over sex ed guidance

The mother of a transgender child has said she was forced to home-school him after the government's controversial sex education guidance posed "safeguarding concerns". The seven-year-old trans boy was reportedly removed from public education after being subjected to "inhuman" statements about his gender identity during lessons. Speaking exclusively to PinkNews, the parent, who wished to remain anonymous, said she received "zero support" from staff at the school despite making numerous complaints about safeguarding concerns.
LGBT
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Bay Area mom fights for people with mental illness after son's police killing

Hall's son Miles was shot and killed by police a block from their home in Walnut Creek on June 2, 2019. The 23-year-old was gripped by symptoms of psychosis, believing he was Jesus and running around the neighborhood with a gardening tool that he said was his staff of God. Hall called 911 to get him medical help as a necessary step toward a conservatorship.
Mental health
fromThe Atlantic
2 months ago

The Father-Daughter Divide

Growing up, Melissa Shultz sometimes felt like she had two fathers. One version of her dad, she told me, was playful and quick to laugh. He was a compelling storyteller who helped shape her career as a writer, and he gave great bear hugs. He often bought her small gifts: a pink "princess" phone when she was a teen, toys for her sons when she became a mom.
Relationships
Relationships
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

I was warned my children would be ripped in half when we divorced. But I had no idea just how brutal custody cases can be

Legal custody often punishes mothers who deviate from maternal norms, prioritizing restraint, vilification, and parental division over genuine caregiving, causing lasting trauma.
fromBuzzFeed
1 month ago

I Made My Son A Promise When He Was Born. 20 Years Later, I Was Devastated To Break It.

I resisted. How could I keep my promise and still consider a group home? The professionals all said the same thing in different words: You can't do this alone. What happens when you get older? He needs a trained staff. His physician, who'd known Chris since he was 3, was even more direct: A group home could offer the structure, safety and supervision I couldn't provide alone.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

My Son's School Is Treating Him Like He's Poor

We are a white, well-off (not extremely wealthy, but doing fine) family living in a mid- to lower-income neighborhood in a major coastal city. Our first grader goes to a Title I public school and a well-known, national non-profit (we'll call it "the ABC program") runs the school care. Our youngest will start kindergarten this fall. I grew up in a wealthy suburb with very minimal diversity of any kind, and I really appreciate that my children are growing up in a more diverse environment.
Parenting
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

I'm taking eight months' paternity leave and it's changing my relationship with my children | Ilyas Nagdee

When I told people I was taking more than eight months of parental leave, the main reactions I got were: What are you going to do with all that time? and won't you get bored? These questions came from every direction including health professionals involved in my wife's pregnancy and the arrival of our second child. More than halfway through my leave, I've been reflecting on what good parental leave looks like:
Parenting
Parenting
fromScary Mommy
2 months ago

A Dad Showed The "Bare Minimum" He Does Before His Wife Gets Home From Work & Men Should Take Notes

A present dad calmly handles childcare and household chores after work—walking child and dog, feeding pet, preparing dinner, cleaning, and bathing the child—sharing responsibilities.
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

My Ex and I Made a Pact to Protect the Kids. But Now He's Conniving Against Me in Sneaky Ways.

In the early stages, we agreed to continue to spend time together as a family to make things easier for the kids, which has included twice-weekly dinners, and holidays spent together. It's worked in one critical way: the kids are doing OK and, although they're not happy about the situation overall, they have adjusted well to the changes in our lifestyle.
Parenting
Parenting
fromIndependent
1 month ago

I never planned to be a solo parent to three kids - but here's how I made it through the good and bad times

Support networks and educational resources help solo parents manage difficult days and fully enjoy positive moments while raising young children.
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