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Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
2 hours ago

Psychology says people who mellow out as they get older aren't the ones who suffered less - they're the ones who decided, at some point and without always knowing they were deciding, that the suffering was going to make them more open rather than less, and that decision, remade daily in small ways that nobody notices, is the entire difference - Silicon Canals

Emotional responses to life's challenges can change over time, leading to greater peace and stability despite ongoing difficulties.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

People who always laugh at their own pain aren't just funny. They survived childhoods where being sad meant being a burden, and that had nothing to do with resilience, and their humor is a dissociation technique that everyone mistakes for strength - Silicon Canals

Some individuals cope with pain by making jokes immediately, masking deeper emotional struggles rooted in childhood environments that discourage expressing feelings.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
2 hours ago

Psychology says people who mellow out as they get older aren't the ones who suffered less - they're the ones who decided, at some point and without always knowing they were deciding, that the suffering was going to make them more open rather than less, and that decision, remade daily in small ways that nobody notices, is the entire difference - Silicon Canals

Emotional responses to life's challenges can change over time, leading to greater peace and stability despite ongoing difficulties.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

People who always laugh at their own pain aren't just funny. They survived childhoods where being sad meant being a burden, and that had nothing to do with resilience, and their humor is a dissociation technique that everyone mistakes for strength - Silicon Canals

Some individuals cope with pain by making jokes immediately, masking deeper emotional struggles rooted in childhood environments that discourage expressing feelings.
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
3 days ago

Shake Off Winter Blues: Brain-Healthy Habits for This Spring

Tracking happiness too closely can reduce enjoyment; supporting gut health and replacing bad habits with healthier ones can enhance overall well-being.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 hours ago

Psychology says people who slowly become unpleasant to be around as they get older didn't develop new flaws - they lost the motivation to manage the old ones, and the management, it turns out, was doing considerably more work than anyone around them understood while it was still running - Silicon Canals

People don't become worse with age; they simply stop managing their flaws as their energy to do so diminishes.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

I'm 66 and I spent forty years trying to stay positive through everything - and what I actually created was a life where nobody knew me well enough to notice when I was drowning - Silicon Canals

Staying positive can lead to hidden struggles and emotional isolation, as individuals often mask their true feelings to appear strong.
#mental-health
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

People who are quietly unhappy with life don't always look unhappy - they look tired, they look busy, they look like they're managing, and the managing is the performance and the performance is the problem and the problem is invisible to everyone who mistakes a well-maintained surface for evidence of what's underneath it - Silicon Canals

Quiet unhappiness manifests as chronic exhaustion and the performance of being okay, often disguised by busyness and emotional labor.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

There's a specific exhaustion that belongs to people who spent decades being exactly what everyone needed them to be - and then one day realized they couldn't remember what they needed - Silicon Canals

People-pleasing leads to losing one's identity and can result in profound exhaustion and disconnection from self.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

People who are quietly unhappy with life don't always look unhappy - they look tired, they look busy, they look like they're managing, and the managing is the performance and the performance is the problem and the problem is invisible to everyone who mistakes a well-maintained surface for evidence of what's underneath it - Silicon Canals

Quiet unhappiness manifests as chronic exhaustion and the performance of being okay, often disguised by busyness and emotional labor.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

There's a specific exhaustion that belongs to people who spent decades being exactly what everyone needed them to be - and then one day realized they couldn't remember what they needed - Silicon Canals

People-pleasing leads to losing one's identity and can result in profound exhaustion and disconnection from self.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
3 days ago

You Budget Your Money. Why Not Your Mental Health?

Mental health and financial health share foundational habits that lead to freedom and self-determination, emphasizing the importance of a diversified mental health plan.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Psychology says people who apologize constantly without realizing it are more damaged than they appear - because they internalize blame and absorb conflict, a survival response from childhood, which never switches off even when they're safe - Silicon Canals

Excessive apologizing often stems from childhood experiences of mistreatment and can lead to chronic self-blame in adulthood.
Medicine
fromwww.bbc.com
6 days ago

Our skin is falling off and no-one can tell us why

Topical steroid withdrawal (TSW) is a serious condition affecting many eczema patients, leading to severe skin reactions and inadequate medical recognition.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

You know a woman has lost her joy in life when she describes her days accurately and without feeling - when the words are all correct and the tone is completely flat and the account of her own life sounds like something being reported rather than lived, and she doesn't notice the flatness because she has been inside it long enough that it just sounds like how things are - Silicon Canals

Emotional flatness can creep in, making life feel like a series of tasks rather than meaningful experiences.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
3 days ago

The Negativity Bias Impacts Everything in Our Lives

Humans are evolutionarily predisposed to focus on negativity for survival, but this can lead to harmful cognitive patterns.
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
5 days ago

Why Your Brain Feels Off After a Day Indoors

Indoor environments lead to mental fatigue due to lack of variation, while brief outdoor exposure can enhance focus and mood.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

Start Strong But Never Finish? 4 Causes and 4 Solutions

Starting strong and quitting is common due to tedium, poor planning, and discouragement; recognizing patterns and seeking support can help overcome this.
fromEntrepreneur
3 weeks ago

Burnout Isn't a Badge - It's a Sign You're Neglecting Yourself

After 40, stress physiology changes. Recovery slows. Hormonal responses linger longer. Sleep disruption compounds more quickly. Cognitive fatigue accumulates across weeks instead of days. Entrepreneurs, in particular, face chronic cognitive load: constant decision-making, emotional responsibility for teams, financial pressure (from investors, shareholders, and stakeholders), unpredictable stress cycles that follow you home to your family.
Miscellaneous
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
4 days ago

3 Signs You're Carrying Someone Else's Anxiety

Empathy can lead to emotional overload for highly empathic individuals, causing them to absorb and internalize others' emotions.
#anxiety
Medicine
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 weeks ago

Out of the blue? How the colour of light could be used to treat mental illness

A psychiatric ward in Trondheim uses dynamic lighting that removes blue wavelengths in the evening to regulate circadian rhythms and treat mental illness symptoms, particularly in bipolar disorder patients.
#daylight-saving-time
Health
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

How Daylight Saving Time Affects Well-Being and Health

Daylight saving time transitions affect mortality patterns, with autumn time changes showing protective effects, while spring changes correlate with increased car accidents and sleep disruption.
Health
fromFast Company
4 weeks ago

Daylight saving time starts Sunday. Here's 11 things you can do to adjust to losing an hour of sleep

Daylight saving time's spring forward shift disrupts the body's natural circadian rhythm, causing sleep deprivation lasting days and increasing risks of heart attacks, strokes, accidents, and mental health issues.
Health
fromWIRED
1 month ago

Want to Survive the Time Change? Set Your Alarm Back Now

Gradually shifting sleep, light, and meal times 20-30 minutes earlier over several days before daylight saving time eases the transition better than abrupt one-hour changes.
Health
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

How Daylight Saving Time Affects Well-Being and Health

Daylight saving time transitions affect mortality patterns, with autumn time changes showing protective effects, while spring changes correlate with increased car accidents and sleep disruption.
Health
fromFast Company
4 weeks ago

Daylight saving time starts Sunday. Here's 11 things you can do to adjust to losing an hour of sleep

Daylight saving time's spring forward shift disrupts the body's natural circadian rhythm, causing sleep deprivation lasting days and increasing risks of heart attacks, strokes, accidents, and mental health issues.
Health
fromWIRED
1 month ago

Want to Survive the Time Change? Set Your Alarm Back Now

Gradually shifting sleep, light, and meal times 20-30 minutes earlier over several days before daylight saving time eases the transition better than abrupt one-hour changes.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
6 days ago

What to Do When You Hit Life's Low Point

External crises trigger deep self-reflection, especially during midlife, leading to questions about fulfillment and the meaning of life.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
4 days ago

Caring for the Part of You That Wants to Die

Suicide ideation affects 15.6% of U.S. adults, with significant risk factors including mental disorders, trauma, and social circumstances.
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

4 Features of Summer That Cloud Your Thinking

Research shows that summertime conditions can lead to cognitive impairments, particularly in memory and concentration. Factors such as sleep disruption, heat, dehydration, and smoke exposure are significant contributors to these effects.
Psychology
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
4 days ago

Outsmarting Depression: A 6-Step Roadmap to Personal Renewal

Depressive symptoms, often dismissed as everyday blues, can escalate quickly and disrupt life, highlighting the importance of recognizing and addressing mental health issues.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Why We Assume the Worst, and How to Stop

Assumptions distort reality and can harm connections, but CBT helps challenge these thought errors through curiosity and fact-checking.
Health
fromwww.scientificamerican.com
4 weeks ago

These two tricks can help your body adjust to daylight saving time

Morning light exposure and early exercise together stabilize circadian rhythms and ease daylight saving time transitions, reducing sleep disruption and health complications.
Mental health
fromInsideHook
5 days ago

How Daily Frustration Is Slowly Sabotaging Your Health

Chronic anger negatively impacts mental and physical health, leading to various health issues and slower healing processes.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
5 days ago

The Facts About Bipolar Disorder in Older People

Older adults face ageism in mental health services, complicating the diagnosis and treatment of conditions like late-onset bipolar disorder.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

People who laugh at their own pain before anyone else can aren't resilient. They've simply learned that if they get to the joke first, nobody gets to decide whether it was serious, and that preemptive deflection has been protecting something very specific since childhood. - Silicon Canals

Self-deprecating humor often masks unresolved pain and serves as a defense mechanism rather than a sign of emotional resilience.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Can We Measure Climate Change's Impact on Mental Health?

Climate change significantly impacts mental health, but tracking these effects is challenging due to inadequate data and attribution issues.
Mindfulness
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

All you need is a chair and a view': could daily dusking' make us healthier and happier?

Dusking, a Dutch twilight observation ritual, involves watching darkness descend without artificial light, reviving a nearly forgotten practice now spreading to other countries.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

Behavioral scientists say men who quietly lost their joy didn't lose it suddenly - it left in increments so small that no single day felt different from the one before, and by the time the absence was large enough to notice, the man had already rebuilt his entire daily life around the gap, and the structure that replaced the joy looks so much like normal that nobody standing outside it can see what's missing - Silicon Canals

Emotional suppression diminishes both negative and positive experiences, leading to a muted life despite external busyness.
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#circadian-rhythm
US politics
fromwww.independent.co.uk
2 months ago

Experts issue warning over this popular winter supplement

Donations fund The Independent's accessible, on-the-ground journalism while providing public health guidance on vitamin D supplementation and potential side effects.
Gadgets
fromZDNET
2 months ago

This near-infrared light could bring the benefits of the sun to your monitor

A USB-C Sunbooster device delivers daily near-infrared light to laptops and monitors to increase indoor sunlight exposure and track dosage.
fromYoga Journal
2 months ago

15-Minute Yoga Practice to Break Out of That Winter Funk

The winter blues are very real. The lack of light and cold temperatures can pull you into a slump-but practicing yoga can help you feel more like yourself and help you overcome some of the symptoms of seasonal affective disorder. All it takes is a willingness to commit to some movement, even-or especially-when you're feeling a bit blah. This grounding morning flow helps you overcome winter sluggishness with some breath-guided stretching and slow activation.
Yoga
Food & drink
fromTasting Table
2 months ago

8 Winter Fruits That Boost Your Immune System - Tasting Table

Specific winter fruits supply immune-supporting vitamins and nutrients; consuming them fresh maximizes vitamin intake and overall immune benefits.
E-Commerce
fromABC7 Los Angeles
2 months ago

Breeze through the tough days of winter, shop self-care essentials from ABC Secret Savings

Handpicked self-care and fitness products to reduce winter stress and support balance, including portable treadmill, smart gym, blender, smart thermometers, and shoes.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

People who feel drained after socializing aren't introverts - they're people who never learned it was safe to stop performing competence, agreeability, and interest for others, and these 9 childhood patterns explain why - Silicon Canals

Social exhaustion often stems from constant self-monitoring and performance to earn approval, not from introversion itself.
fromEsquire
2 months ago

4 Best Bright Light Therapy Lamps to Get You Through the Winter

When should I use my bright light therapy lamp? You should use it every morning (as soon as possible after waking up) during the months when you experience SAD symptoms. It is not advised to use a bright light therapy lamp in the afternoon or evening, as it can mess with your circadian rhythm/sleep cycle. You should try to use it for 20-30 minutes each day.
Health
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

The February self-care ritual Scandinavians practice that fights winter darkness better than any supplement - Silicon Canals

Instead, they practice something called "friluftsliv" - literally "free air life" - and in February, when winter feels endless, this practice becomes almost sacred. It's their secret weapon against the darkness, and after trying it myself during a particularly rough winter, I can tell you it works better than any supplement I've ever taken. The word itself sounds complicated, but friluftsliv is beautifully simple. It means spending time outdoors, regardless of weather conditions. Not despite the cold and darkness, but because of it.
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

3 Ways Spring Brings Hope

Spring ends the winter season like light ends the darkness. The coming of spring reminds us of the peaks and valleys of life. If you are in a valley, know that there is light at the end of the tunnel and a peak will come soon. Just as the seasons change, so too will your life.
Mental health
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Why Embracing Positive Emotions Can Help with Daily Stress

Positive emotions and small moments of joy effectively regulate stress and complement strategies aimed at reducing negative feelings.
Mental health
fromwww.bbc.com
2 months ago

Blue Monday: Why it's a 'load of rubbish'

Blue Monday is a marketing-coined, non-scientific label that can exacerbate anxiety and harm people managing mental health.
Mental health
fromApartment Therapy
1 month ago

My "Anti-Cozy" Trick Is the Only Way I Survive Being Stuck Inside the House All Winter

Use deliberate 'anti-cozy' winter habits to add contrast and stimulation, counteract hibernation, and improve mood without abandoning comfort.
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago

Many people sleep worse in winter. Here's what experts want you to know.

It's normal to feel sluggish during the winter. Cold temperatures and fewer hours of sunlight can mean less time outdoors and more time staring at our screens. For some people, these cold-weather habits may contribute to a sleep disruption, known as winter insomnia. This isn't a clinical condition, but it might begin or worsen during the winter months.
Mental health
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Parenting in Winter Is Hard

Long, dark winters biologically strain nervous systems, reduce mood-regulating chemicals, increase illness and routine disruption, causing widespread fatigue, dysregulation, and parenting strain.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

We Need Positive Energy to Get Through Gloomy Times

Ordinary life’s small annoyances accumulate anxieties, yet small details and rituals reveal meaning and remind people of their lives’ value.
fromApartment Therapy
2 months ago

My "OBW" Method for Getting Outside Works Every Winter (And Makes Me Actually Like the Cold)

There's a particular kind of winter quiet that settles in around January - a soft, heavy stillness that seems to press itself against windows that look out into a muted world of dull skies and bare branches. The idea of stepping outside feels like far more effort than it should. Inside, the air feels warmer, and my home becomes a nest made of cozy blankets, soft lamplight, and familiar corners.
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