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Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Psychology says people who let their pets sleep in their bed aren't clingy or emotionally stunted - they've found one of the only relationships in modern life that offers unconditional presence without the performance anxiety that makes human connection so exhausting - Silicon Canals

Needing comfort from pets is not a weakness; it can enhance emotional well-being and reduce anxiety.
#intimacy
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
16 hours ago

Before You Share Your Body, Ask: Do They Know You?

Physical intimacy often occurs before emotional intimacy, highlighting a paradox in relationships where vulnerability is avoided despite physical closeness.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
16 hours ago

Before You Share Your Body, Ask: Do They Know You?

Physical intimacy often occurs before emotional intimacy, highlighting a paradox in relationships where vulnerability is avoided despite physical closeness.
#loneliness
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago
Mental health

What Happens When We Simultaneously Seek and Avoid Intimacy?

Loneliness has escalated to a public health crisis, significantly impacting mortality rates and emotional well-being.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

Psychology says the loneliest people in life aren't the ones nobody likes - they're the kind, helpful people everyone appreciates but nobody thinks to check on because they seem so self-sufficient - Silicon Canals

Highly capable, helpful individuals often feel lonely because their strength creates an illusion that they do not need support.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

What Happens When We Simultaneously Seek and Avoid Intimacy?

Loneliness has escalated to a public health crisis, significantly impacting mortality rates and emotional well-being.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

Psychology says the loneliest people in life aren't the ones nobody likes - they're the kind, helpful people everyone appreciates but nobody thinks to check on because they seem so self-sufficient - Silicon Canals

Highly capable, helpful individuals often feel lonely because their strength creates an illusion that they do not need support.
LGBT
fromQueerty
2 days ago

Cavorting with chatbots?! Survey reveals whether people think sexting with AI is cheating - Queerty

AI is transforming interactions within the LGBTQ+ community, impacting relationships and social dynamics significantly.
fromMail Online
3 days ago

Scientists discover the male G-spot is not where anyone thought

The frenular delta, described as a V-shaped or Y-shaped area on the underside of the penis, is packed with specialized nerve endings that create intense pleasure.
Medicine
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
6 days ago

Did My Mom Really Love One of Us More Than the Other?

The favored child dynamic shifted dramatically during adolescence, leading to feelings of rebellion and alienation.
#communication
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Psychology says people who reply to messages within seconds aren't just efficient - they've built their sense of safety around being reachable, because somewhere in their past, being slow to respond had consequences - Silicon Canals

Instant responses to messages often stem from a psychological need to mitigate perceived threats rather than mere efficiency.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Psychology says people who would always rather call than text aren't demanding more of your time - they're asking for the one thing that separates a real conversation from the performance of one, which is the sound of another person being alive on the other end, and that need is not inconvenient, it is human - Silicon Canals

Phone calls foster deeper connections than text messages, capturing nuances of emotion that typed words cannot convey.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

Psychology says people who are cold through text but warm in person aren't being inconsistent - they're showing you exactly where their warmth lives, which is in the room, in the eye contact, in the unrepeatable presence of another human being, and the medium that removes all of those things removes most of what they have to give - Silicon Canals

People's communication styles reflect their emotional energy, not their intentions or feelings towards others.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Psychology says people who reply to messages within seconds aren't just efficient - they've built their sense of safety around being reachable, because somewhere in their past, being slow to respond had consequences - Silicon Canals

Instant responses to messages often stem from a psychological need to mitigate perceived threats rather than mere efficiency.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Psychology says people who would always rather call than text aren't demanding more of your time - they're asking for the one thing that separates a real conversation from the performance of one, which is the sound of another person being alive on the other end, and that need is not inconvenient, it is human - Silicon Canals

Phone calls foster deeper connections than text messages, capturing nuances of emotion that typed words cannot convey.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

Psychology says people who are cold through text but warm in person aren't being inconsistent - they're showing you exactly where their warmth lives, which is in the room, in the eye contact, in the unrepeatable presence of another human being, and the medium that removes all of those things removes most of what they have to give - Silicon Canals

People's communication styles reflect their emotional energy, not their intentions or feelings towards others.
#friendship
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Psychology says people who drop their friends as soon as they get into a new relationship aren't choosing love over friendship - they're revealing that the friendships were always filling a need the relationship now fills, and the difference between a friend and a placeholder is something most people only discover when the relationship arrives and the friends quietly disappear - Silicon Canals

Friendships often fade when one partner enters a romantic relationship, revealing the superficial nature of some connections.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

The friendships that survive months of silence and pick up exactly where they left off aren't casual. They're evidence that someone once knew you beneath the performance, and the connection lives at a layer that doesn't require maintenance because it was never built on the surface in the first place. - Silicon Canals

Low-maintenance friendships can be deep connections that endure silence and distance, indicating a strong underlying bond.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Psychology says people who drop their friends as soon as they get into a new relationship aren't choosing love over friendship - they're revealing that the friendships were always filling a need the relationship now fills, and the difference between a friend and a placeholder is something most people only discover when the relationship arrives and the friends quietly disappear - Silicon Canals

Friendships often fade when one partner enters a romantic relationship, revealing the superficial nature of some connections.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

The friendships that survive months of silence and pick up exactly where they left off aren't casual. They're evidence that someone once knew you beneath the performance, and the connection lives at a layer that doesn't require maintenance because it was never built on the surface in the first place. - Silicon Canals

Low-maintenance friendships can be deep connections that endure silence and distance, indicating a strong underlying bond.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
5 days ago

If My Call Is Important to You, Why Can't I Get an Answer?

Cognitive load is increasing due to constant demands on time, attention, and energy, leading to exhaustion and mental health challenges.
#sexual-orientation
LGBT
fromPsychology Today
6 days ago

Why Identical Twins Can Have Different Sexual Orientations

Sexual orientation may have genetic links, but identical twins can have different orientations due to epigenetics and prenatal hormone exposure.
LGBT
fromPsychology Today
6 days ago

Why Identical Twins Can Have Different Sexual Orientations

Sexual orientation may have genetic links, but identical twins can have different orientations due to epigenetics and prenatal hormone exposure.
Relationships
fromHuffPost
22 hours ago

Embracing 'Outercourse' Might Totally Transform Your Sex Life

Outercourse encompasses various sexual activities beyond penetration, enhancing sexual pleasure and intimacy.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

Psychology suggests the most attractive person in the room is almost never the one trying hardest to be - because effort in the direction of attractiveness is visible, and visibility of effort is the one thing that reliably cancels the effect it's trying to produce - Silicon Canals

Authenticity is more appealing than effortful perfection in social interactions.
#attachment-theory
Psychology
fromSlate Magazine
3 days ago

An Acclaimed Scientist Brought Attachment Theory to the Masses-and the Masses Completely Misunderstood It. His New Book Sets the Record Straight.

Attachment theory categorizes individuals into four types based on their relationship styles, influencing various aspects of life including love, work, and social interactions.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

The Unconscious Relationship Patterns That Shape Who We Love

Relationship patterns stem from multiple factors beyond attachment theory, including temperament, biology, culture, spirituality, and unconscious psychological processes rooted in past experiences.
Psychology
fromSlate Magazine
3 days ago

An Acclaimed Scientist Brought Attachment Theory to the Masses-and the Masses Completely Misunderstood It. His New Book Sets the Record Straight.

Attachment theory categorizes individuals into four types based on their relationship styles, influencing various aspects of life including love, work, and social interactions.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

The Unconscious Relationship Patterns That Shape Who We Love

Relationship patterns stem from multiple factors beyond attachment theory, including temperament, biology, culture, spirituality, and unconscious psychological processes rooted in past experiences.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

Introverts who prefer texting aren't avoiding connection - they're choosing the format where they can be most honest - Silicon Canals

Texting allows introverts to communicate authentically without the pressure of immediate responses.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

Can Listening Move You to Love?

High-quality listening evokes Kama Muta, a powerful emotion of feeling moved by love, fostering emotional closeness in both listeners and speakers.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

Psychology says the most self-centered people in any room aren't the ones who talk loudest - they're the ones who respond to every story you tell with a story about themselves, so automatically and so consistently that they've long since stopped noticing they do it - Silicon Canals

Conversational narcissism involves shifting focus in conversations back to oneself, often without awareness, hindering genuine connection.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

Behavioral scientists found that the most emotionally intelligent people in a room are often the quietest, not because they have nothing to say but because they learned early that observation protects you in ways that speaking never did - Silicon Canals

Quiet individuals in professional settings often possess high emotional intelligence, using silence as a strategic tool for observation and understanding.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

The Death of Romance?

According to a 2025 poll by Rassmussen, 37% of single adults under 30 in the US report that they are "not interested" in dating at all. It appears that many young Americans have effectively given up on romance. This begs the question of why so many young people would forego one of the most basic physical, social, and emotional human needs: an intimate relationship with a loving partner.
Miscellaneous
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

Psychology says if someone secretly dislikes you they'll almost never say it out loud - but their body will, in the microseconds before they've decided what their face is supposed to be doing, and learning to read those moments is one of the more uncomfortable social skills available to anyone willing to develop it - Silicon Canals

Microexpressions reveal true emotions faster than conscious control, providing insights into feelings that words may conceal.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
3 days ago

My Wife Is Begging for a Repeat of My Special Performance in Bed. I Have Bad News.

Personal sexual boundaries should be respected, but societal pressures and misogyny can complicate attitudes towards oral sex.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
4 days ago

Why Behavior Change Alone Won't Fix Your Relationship

Behavioral therapy changes observable actions, while emotionally focused therapy emphasizes emotional engagement for lasting relational change.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
5 days ago

Why Timing Is Key to Better Relationships

Bold actions can lead to significant outcomes, while excessive patience may hinder progress in both business and personal relationships.
Psychology
fromThe Gottman Institute
5 days ago

Why Behavioral Health Is the Hidden Foundation of Your Relationship

Individual behavioral health significantly influences relationship dynamics and the ability to navigate conflicts effectively.
Relationships
fromQueerty
6 days ago

Sexpert explains the science behind "just okay" oral & why BJs don't always end in climax - Queerty

Oral sex often doesn't lead to climax for men due to different sensations compared to penetration.
Relationships
fromMail Online
6 days ago

Women in relationships report HIGHER sexual satisfaction than men

Women in romantic relationships report higher sexual satisfaction than men, challenging long-held beliefs about gender differences in sexual experiences.
#sexual-desire
fromwww.independent.co.uk
1 month ago

Valentine's Day: What makes a good kiss? Here is the psychology behind it

From reproductive rights to climate change to Big Tech, The Independent is on the ground when the story is developing. Whether it's investigating the financials of Elon Musk's pro-Trump PAC or producing our latest documentary, 'The A Word', which shines a light on the American women fighting for reproductive rights, we know how important it is to parse out the facts from the messaging.
US politics
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

4 Reasons Why You Lower Your Standards for Love

Many individuals remain in relationships due to the allure of potential rather than the reality of their partner's behavior.
Science
fromwww.scientificamerican.com
1 month ago

Kissing goes back 21.5 million years. How it originated remains a mystery

Kisses create long-lasting emotional memories, ranging from perfectly timed intimate moments to staged cinematic kisses, while the biological reasons for kissing remain unclear.
#relationships
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

The Psychology of Loyalty: It's Not About Options

Loyalty stems from character and internal values, not from lack of better options; it represents a deliberate choice rooted in integrity and identity.
fromMail Online
1 month ago

The most bizarre responses to female climax - including CRYING

The researchers hope the findings will help to reassure women that their responses during orgasm are normal. 'While there have been case reports of women laughing, crying or having unusual physical symptoms during orgasm, this is the first study to characterize what these phenomena are, and when they are most likely to occur,' lead author Dr Lauren Streicher said. 'Women need to know that if they have uncontrollable peals of laughter every time they orgasm, and nothing was funny, they are not alone.'
Health
Science
fromwww.dw.com
1 month ago

Does this chemical really make you fall in love?

Oxytocin is a simple, ancient nine-amino-acid hormone that influences childbirth, social bonding, and trust, but it is not inherently social.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

Is Making Love Different from Just Having Sex?

Making love differs from casual sex through patience, emotional intimacy, and temporal richness, involving slower, more tender interactions and deeper connection.
Relationships
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 weeks ago

Can prolonged eye contact really make couples feel closer?

Prolonged eye contact activates brain regions for emotional recognition and social awareness, potentially strengthening relationships and mood management through nervous system arousal.
Relationships
fromThe Atlantic
2 weeks ago

Are We Still 'The Intimate Animal'?

Evolutionary biologist Justin Garcia argues that intimacy is central to human reproduction and wellbeing, yet modern society faces an unprecedented intimacy crisis affecting increasing numbers of people.
fromPsychology Today
4 weeks ago

The Real Science of Smell and Attraction

Unlike sight or sound, smell has a direct pathway to the amygdala and hippocampus-the regions involved in emotion and autobiographical memory. Because of this connection, memories triggered by scent are often more vivid and emotionally intense than those triggered by sight.
Psychology
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Is Romantic Curiosity a Virtue?

Romantic dating and shopping are both goal-directed; romantic window-shopping delivers short-term enjoyment from curiosity but rarely leads to long-term relationship outcomes.
Relationships
fromHuffPost
2 weeks ago

Couples Who Are REALLY In Love Should Be Able To Answer These Questions

Asking meaningful questions about your partner's inner world deepens emotional intimacy and relationship resilience more than surface-level conversation.
Relationships
fromThe Gottman Institute
2 weeks ago

Dopamine in Relationships: What Gottman's Research Reveals About the Stages of Love

Dopamine drives initial romantic attraction and excitement, but lasting love requires emotional attunement, trust, and friendship built through three phases: limerence, trust, and commitment.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

The Quiet Tension Between Needing Space and Needing People

Most people recognize this feeling, even if they don't quite know what to call it. You cancel plans because being around others sounds exhausting. The quiet feels like relief. Then, a day later, you feel flat, lonely, or strangely restless. When you do see people again, you enjoy parts of it, but notice how quickly your energy runs out. For many people, this rhythm feels sharper and harder to interpret than it once did.
Mental health
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 weeks ago

My New Girlfriend Just Told Me What She Wants Me to Do to Her in Bed. This Feels Wrong.

Communication about specific BDSM preferences is essential before assuming domination means denigration; partners should discuss what submission and dominance actually mean to them individually.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Is Kissing Essential for Exciting Sex?

Passionate kissing ranges from light pecks to intense French kissing, serving as intimate emotional communication, yet many people avoid it despite its role in romantic relationships.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Are Romantic Couples Really the Winners?

The researchers think it is fine to tell you only about the time it took each participant to get out of the box. After all, it is a study of box-escaping skill. Often, there is a highly relevant context to the story that is not mentioned. In my hypothetical example, it looks like this: The single person is in the box on the left. The door is shut, and there are boulders in front of it. The top of the box is taped shut.
Psychology
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

3 Strategies for Indirectly Asking Someone Out

Indirect strategies for asking someone out can reduce anxiety and awkwardness by addressing six core concerns that typically prevent people from initiating romantic relationships.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

2 'Annoying Habits' That Show Your Partner Really Loves You

Deep, durable love is expressed through willingness to engage with discomfort and address unresolved issues, not just through comfort and validation.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

What Puts a Woman in the Mood?

The mind is the primary sex organ for women, serving as the gatekeeper for physical intimacy, and emotional connection with a partner significantly increases sexual desire.
Relationships
fromMail Online
1 month ago

What's YOUR flirting style? Scientists reveal 6 key pulling tactics

Scientists identified six distinct flirting tactics: imagined future, metalinguistic reference, self-praise, humour, sexual innuendo, and additional categories used to signal romantic or sexual interest.
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

I used to think I was bad at relationships until I realized I was just choosing people who needed an audience, not a partner - Silicon Canals

Some people enter relationships looking for a witness. They want someone who will laugh at the right moments, validate the right feelings, and remain captivated by the ongoing narrative of their life. This sounds harsh, and it can be. But it often doesn't look dramatic or narcissistic on the surface. It looks like charm.
Relationships
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

How to Win at the Game of Love With Competitive Flirting

Flirting serves multiple adaptive functions: attracting mates by signaling erotic availability, deterring rivals by implying commitment, and manipulating social or material advantages.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

Love makes you reckless (literally): study finds romantic cues increase risk-taking - Silicon Canals

Exposure to romantic cues reduces self-control and increases both everyday and ethical risk-taking.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Nothing Is Riskier Than Love

Love is an attachment bond rooted in early development, inherently risky because it exposes vulnerability and carries the potential for loss.
Relationships
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago

More people want open relationships, but here's why many don't last

Open relationships enjoy greater acceptance among younger adults but are often experimented with rather than sustained as long-term relationship structures.
Psychology
fromMail Online
1 month ago

Revealed: What your sexual fantasies say about you

Frequent sexual fantasies associate with higher neuroticism and depression risk, while infrequent fantasies link to greater conscientiousness or agreeableness.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Myths About Attraction to Forget Before Valentine's Day

Personality similarity, physiological synchrony, and shared traits strongly predict romantic attraction, refuting the 'opposites attract' idea.
fromFast Company
1 month ago

We're wired to sync with one another-and that shapes attraction, trust, and belonging

Bring two or more people together and they will immediately begin to synchronize or fall into rhythm with one another. Not only do we tend to subconsciously mimic one another's movements, postures, facial expressions, and gestures, but recent breakthroughs in technology have revealed we also sync up our heart rates, blood pressure, brain waves, pupil dilation, and hormonal activity. This phenomenon is known as interpersonal synchrony, and it is possibly the most consequential social dynamic most people have never heard of.
Psychology
#passionate-love
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Sex and Intimacy

Repairing sexual conflict begins by making sex comfortable to discuss, enabling honest expression of wants and promoting intimacy through caring, thoughtful behavior.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Eight Ways to Show Love to Your Love

Love is more than a physical attraction and belief in the concept of soul mates. Love is also about choices, decisions, and even forgiveness. Lasting relationships can thrive when partners: Gratitude strengthens love It was a conversation with John Kralik, author of 365 Thank Yous, that inspired Revitalize Your Love Life with a Three-Day Gratitude Plan. With the gratitude plan, you are essentially clearing out feelings that keep your relationship from thriving. The ultimate goal is to create a mindset for unconditional love.
Relationships
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

What Porn, Affairs, and Early Romance Teach Us About Desire

Passion intensifies when uncertainty, vulnerability, and risk are present, whereas safety and predictability in long-term relationships often diminish erotic intensity.
Relationships
fromHuffPost
1 month ago

This Is What Couples Who Are Really In Love Look Like, According To Body Language Experts

Nonverbal behaviors—touch, gaze, posture, and spatial movement—form the emotional undercurrent that signals intimacy, intentions, and trust between romantic partners.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Can You Be Addicted to Love?

Relational patterns labeled "love addiction" reflect attachment-related needs, not a recognized psychiatric addiction, and require understanding and soothing of deep-seated needs.
#36-questions
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Suitability Is the Name of the Romantic Game

Partner value combines stand-alone traits and personal suitability, with suitability and relational qualities like kindness ultimately determining long-term romantic success.
Relationships
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

Are we hard-wired for infidelity?

Humans evolved both secure pair-bonding and a genetically influenced appetite for sexual novelty, producing heritable predispositions toward infidelity in some individuals.
Relationships
fromThe Atlantic
1 month ago

An Enduring Assumption About Love

Stated preferences rarely determine romantic outcomes; chemistry, timing, shared experiences, and gradual emotional development predict lasting relationships more than declared "types."
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

Couples who cuddle while sleeping are far happier than those who don't - Silicon Canals

When I first read that couples who touch while sleeping report 94% relationship satisfaction compared to just 68% for those who don't, I nearly fell off my chair. Could something as simple as nighttime cuddling really make that much difference? After diving deep into the research and reflecting on my own relationship, I discovered that those quiet moments of physical closeness might be one of the most underrated predictors of relationship happiness.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Three Roads Diverged in Romantic Life

Profound love is about the desire to live with a partner who can thrive in a mutual relationship. Sometimes, life wins out over love, and one partner may say, "I will always love you, but we cannot flourish together." Profound love isn't always synonymous with long-term love; some couples divorce despite deep affection. The heart of enduring love is the capacity to bring out the best in each other.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

How to Be an Apprentice to Love

Love doesn't always come naturally; many of us need guidance about how to feel love and express it. There are many ways we can, consciously or not, block the experience of loving and being loved. Deep-seated fears of being hurt, used, or deceived often stop us from accepting love. Acknowledging that these fears are normal is the first step to overcoming them.
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