Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoThere is a version of grief that only people in their forties understand. It's not for someone who died. It's for the life you were quietly building in your head for twenty years that you now realize was never going to happen, and the mourning has no name because the thing you lost never existed outside your own planning. - Silicon Canals
Midlife reckoning involves mourning an imagined life that never existed, rather than regret for choices made.