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Washington Nationals
fromRiggo's Rag
5 hours ago

Adam Peters finally confirmed what Commanders fans figured out months ago

The Washington Commanders need to regain their identity and rethink their strategy after a disappointing season.
Women
fromwww.theguardian.com
9 hours ago

My doctor said joy can be found in unexpected places. For me it was the Adelaide 36ers | Olivia De Zilva

Finding joy and identity can emerge unexpectedly through shared experiences, such as participating in sports, even when initially resistant to them.
#lgbtq
fromQueerty
1 day ago
LGBT

Erik Braverman on winning a World Series, running a popular gay bar & finding love over pina coladas - Queerty

Relationships
fromQueerty
2 months ago

I'm 67 & would like to try intimate contact with a man for the first time. But where do I go? - Queerty

A 67-year-old man grapples with his desire for closeness and connection with other men, feeling out of place in modern dating culture.
fromQueerty
2 days ago
LGBT

EXCLUSIVE: German film Free At Heart is a coming-of-age romance with a taboo twist - Queerty

LGBT
fromQueerty
1 day ago

Erik Braverman on winning a World Series, running a popular gay bar & finding love over pina coladas - Queerty

Erik Braverman navigated his identity as a gay sports executive, blending personal and professional life while achieving significant milestones in both realms.
Relationships
fromQueerty
2 months ago

I'm 67 & would like to try intimate contact with a man for the first time. But where do I go? - Queerty

A 67-year-old man grapples with his desire for closeness and connection with other men, feeling out of place in modern dating culture.
LGBT
fromQueerty
2 days ago

EXCLUSIVE: German film Free At Heart is a coming-of-age romance with a taboo twist - Queerty

Sebastian navigates unexpected feelings for his new housemate Kolja while grappling with his identity and the complexities of first love.
SF LGBT
fromAdvocate.com
1 week ago

Gay drag artist murdered in Virginia shooting

Shyyell Diamond Sanchez-McCray was identified by his family as a gay man, contradicting earlier reports of him being a transgender woman.
#retirement
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Psychologists explain that people who feel neglected in retirement aren't necessarily being ignored - they're experiencing the sudden absence of the role-based relationships that made them feel valued for forty years - Silicon Canals

Retirement can lead to feelings of invisibility and loss of identity as relationships formed at work fade away.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

There's a version of retirement happiness that nobody puts in the brochures - it's not the traveling or the golf or the grandchildren visits, it's the first morning you wake up and realize you have absolutely no one to impress and the relief of that lands in your chest like something you've been waiting your whole life to feel - Silicon Canals

Retirement brings a profound realization of freedom from the need to impress others.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

I watched my dad retire with every financial box checked and then go back to work within a year - and it wasn't until he said 'I miss being useful' that I understood what we never talk about when we talk about retirement - Silicon Canals

Retirement can lead to a loss of identity and purpose, as many individuals struggle with the absence of their professional roles.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

I asked a retirement counselor why men fall apart within two years of retiring - she said it's not boredom, it's the first time their nervous system has no structure to hide inside - Silicon Canals

Retirement can disrupt men's sense of identity and structure, leading to emotional challenges as they face a lack of external regulation.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

I spent twenty years climbing the ladder and three months in retirement to realize I was measuring success by all the wrong metrics - Silicon Canals

Retirement can lead to a loss of identity and purpose when metrics that defined professional life are removed.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

I'm 66 and I've been retired for four years and the strangest part isn't the boredom or the money or the free time - it's that I finally have space to think and I'm realizing I don't actually like the person I built my entire career around becoming - Silicon Canals

Retirement can lead to self-reflection, revealing dissatisfaction with one's professional identity and prompting a reevaluation of personal values.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

Psychologists explain that people who feel neglected in retirement aren't necessarily being ignored - they're experiencing the sudden absence of the role-based relationships that made them feel valued for forty years - Silicon Canals

Retirement can lead to feelings of invisibility and loss of identity as relationships formed at work fade away.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

There's a version of retirement happiness that nobody puts in the brochures - it's not the traveling or the golf or the grandchildren visits, it's the first morning you wake up and realize you have absolutely no one to impress and the relief of that lands in your chest like something you've been waiting your whole life to feel - Silicon Canals

Retirement brings a profound realization of freedom from the need to impress others.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

I watched my dad retire with every financial box checked and then go back to work within a year - and it wasn't until he said 'I miss being useful' that I understood what we never talk about when we talk about retirement - Silicon Canals

Retirement can lead to a loss of identity and purpose, as many individuals struggle with the absence of their professional roles.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

I asked a retirement counselor why men fall apart within two years of retiring - she said it's not boredom, it's the first time their nervous system has no structure to hide inside - Silicon Canals

Retirement can disrupt men's sense of identity and structure, leading to emotional challenges as they face a lack of external regulation.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

I spent twenty years climbing the ladder and three months in retirement to realize I was measuring success by all the wrong metrics - Silicon Canals

Retirement can lead to a loss of identity and purpose when metrics that defined professional life are removed.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

I'm 66 and I've been retired for four years and the strangest part isn't the boredom or the money or the free time - it's that I finally have space to think and I'm realizing I don't actually like the person I built my entire career around becoming - Silicon Canals

Retirement can lead to self-reflection, revealing dissatisfaction with one's professional identity and prompting a reevaluation of personal values.
from48 hills
1 day ago

Drama Masks: Mad, bad, and dangerous to see - 48 hills

The final show I review below got me looks that made me feel like a fish in a bowl. First, the private security at the door had two Valiant rent-a-cops who scowling at me-and only me-with that same 'Give me an excuse!' glare I've gotten from real cops all my life.
Arts
#photography
Photography
fromBOOOOOOOM!
1 day ago

2025 Photo Awards Winner: Sima Choubdarzadeh

Sima Choubdarzadeh won the Portrait category in the fourth annual Photo Awards for her work on migration, identity, and resistance.
Photography
fromAnOther
1 week ago

Dykes: a New Photo Book Celebrating Queer Multiplicity

Emily Lipson's photo book Dykes celebrates community and change, featuring personal connections and a broad spectrum of dyke identity.
Photography
fromBOOOOOOOM!
1 week ago

Booooooom x Capture Photography Festival: Sami Farra Interview

Sami Farra's work combines photography and architecture, questioning reality and offering a unique perspective on the environment.
Film
fromAnOther
1 day ago

Robert Pattinson: "I've Always Liked Things That Are Provocative"

Robert Pattinson embodies diverse characters, showcasing multidimensionality and complexity, while promoting 1664 as a global brand ambassador in a humorous campaign.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

The loneliest people at the party are often the ones everybody knows - they've become so reliable at reflecting others back to themselves that nobody ever thinks to ask what's actually happening behind their eyes - Silicon Canals

Being the social mirror for others can lead to feelings of loneliness and invisibility, despite appearing socially connected.
Writing
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

I'm 66 and the loneliest I've ever felt wasn't after my children left or my friends moved away - it was the morning I woke up and realized I had nothing that needed me, nothing that depended on my showing up, and the whole day stretched ahead like a road with no destination - Silicon Canals

Loneliness can stem from feeling unnecessary, not just from being alone.
Philosophy
fromNature
1 day ago

How procrastination can rob you of career fulfilment in science

Procrastination is linked to the cult of work, where identity is tied to productivity and work becomes a sacred duty.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

There's a specific kind of exhaustion that comes not from doing too much but from performing a version of yourself all day that doesn't actually exist. The tiredness isn't physical. It's the distance between who people think you are and who you become the moment the door closes. - Silicon Canals

Performance in social settings creates psychological fatigue due to the gap between projected identity and true self.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

There's a specific kind of loyalty that keeps people in jobs, cities, and friendships years after the reason they stayed has disappeared. It's not inertia. It's that leaving would require admitting the time already spent wasn't building toward something, and that admission costs more than staying another year. - Silicon Canals

People remain in unfulfilling situations due to the fear of admitting past investments were unproductive, not because of passivity or fear of change.
fromApaonline
2 days ago

The Feminine as Structural Problem

The deeper I go, the more feminist I become! Yet my experience of academic philosophy has largely disclosed the opposite: a discipline that solemnly declares its devotion to openness proves curiously unsettled by me as a woman.
Philosophy
Writing
fromThe Nation
2 days ago

My Years-Long Fight to Say "They"

The author reflects on their journey of writing about their experiences as a Jehovah's Witness and the challenges faced in publishing.
fromCN Traveller
2 days ago

"This is a place you feel, not see": why everyone is falling in love with Athens right now

Athens is a place you feel, not see. The beauty and soul of the city is laced into the way of life - the small moments and exchanges that happen daily - rather than in immaculately preserved monuments, museums and high streets like those of other European capitals.
Berlin food
#mental-health
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

People who were always the strong one in the family often become the loneliest person in the room after 65 - Silicon Canals

A strong family role can lead to isolation and unrecognized mental health needs in older adults when their support role diminishes.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

People who were always the strong one in the family often become the loneliest person in the room after 65 - Silicon Canals

A strong family role can lead to isolation and unrecognized mental health needs in older adults when their support role diminishes.
Books
fromHarper's Magazine
5 days ago

Intimate Difference, by Jasmine Liu, Christine Smallwood

Siblinghood is portrayed in literature through various dynamics, influencing identity and relationships in works like Antigone and The Metamorphosis.
fromwww.aljazeera.com
2 days ago

Permanent scar': Iran minister on US-Israeli attacks on monuments

Reza Salehi Amiri stated, 'We are not talking about stone and mortar... We are talking about the memory and history of a people. This stone represents who we are.'
World news
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 days ago

A moment that changed me: for the first time in my life, a stranger pronounced my name correctly

I would squirm in my chair as my new teacher worked their way through the class register, and my stomach would drop as they attempted to say my full name: Priti Ubhayakar.
Writing
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 days ago

Women behind the lens: I grew up hating my natural hair. But I transformed that pain into something empowering'

I create sculptural hairstyles using my natural hair as a material. I add some extensions, and shape it with thread and wire. A sculpture can take me from 30 minutes to more than six hours.
Writing
London food
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 days ago

To call my part of London Little Tehran' isn't quite right | Letter

The distance between Tehran and London has become manageable, but recent events have intensified feelings of anxiety within the Iranian diaspora in Finchley.
Health
fromPsychology Today
3 days ago

The Things Physician Mothers Don't Talk About

Strength is often misrepresented as silence, leading to feelings of inadequacy in motherhood and personal identity.
#friendship
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

I'm 37 and I realized last month that I haven't had a real conversation with anyone other than my spouse in over a year - not because I'm antisocial but because every friendship I had required me to perform a version of myself I don't have the energy for anymore - Silicon Canals

Friendships can fade as personal identities evolve, leading to a disconnect between past selves and current realities.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

The friends you made between 19 and 24 know a version of you that your current partner, your therapist, and your coworkers will never meet. And the grief isn't about losing those friends. It's about losing access to the person you were with them. - Silicon Canals

Friendships formed between ages 19 and 24 serve as an identity archive, reflecting a version of oneself that no longer exists.
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago
Relationships

I'm 37 and I watched my friendships disappear one by one - no fights, no drama - and then I realized it was me who changed - Silicon Canals

Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

I'm 37 and I realized last month that I haven't had a real conversation with anyone other than my spouse in over a year - not because I'm antisocial but because every friendship I had required me to perform a version of myself I don't have the energy for anymore - Silicon Canals

Friendships can fade as personal identities evolve, leading to a disconnect between past selves and current realities.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

The friends you made between 19 and 24 know a version of you that your current partner, your therapist, and your coworkers will never meet. And the grief isn't about losing those friends. It's about losing access to the person you were with them. - Silicon Canals

Friendships formed between ages 19 and 24 serve as an identity archive, reflecting a version of oneself that no longer exists.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

I'm 37 and I watched my friendships disappear one by one - no fights, no drama - and then I realized it was me who changed - Silicon Canals

Friendships can fade as individuals change and evolve, often without conflict or clear reasons for the loss.
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 days ago

A Rebel and a Traitor by Rory Carroll review the extraordinary story of Roger Casement

Casement was bequeathed, in Carroll's words, a fractured identity as the child of a Protestant father and a Catholic mother who were both dead by the time he was 12.
History
London music
fromwww.theguardian.com
4 days ago

If I didn't have dwarfism, I'd probably be quite normcore': Midgitte Bardot on sex, drag and street harassment

Tamm Reynolds, a non-binary trans drag queen with dwarfism, is a unique performance artist known for their bold and provocative acts.
#family-dynamics
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
4 days ago

Did My Mom Really Love One of Us More Than the Other?

The favored child dynamic shifted dramatically during adolescence, leading to feelings of rebellion and alienation.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

'Stand by Me' at 40-Watching It Through My Child's Eyes

Family experiences, including grief and trauma, significantly shape children's identities and emotional landscapes, influencing their perceptions and relationships.
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
4 days ago

Did My Mom Really Love One of Us More Than the Other?

The favored child dynamic shifted dramatically during adolescence, leading to feelings of rebellion and alienation.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

'Stand by Me' at 40-Watching It Through My Child's Eyes

Family experiences, including grief and trauma, significantly shape children's identities and emotional landscapes, influencing their perceptions and relationships.
Film
fromwww.theguardian.com
4 days ago

Night Stage review public sex enthusiasm the key to extravagant and subversive erotic thriller

An erotic thriller from Brazil blends realism with bizarre elements, focusing on public sex and its implications for identity and desire.
#self-awareness
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

I'm 62 and I just realized I've never once entered a room and thought about what I wanted from it. I only ever think about what the room wants from me. And I've been calling that social skills for decades. - Silicon Canals

Self-awareness can diminish when prioritizing others' comfort over personal preferences, leading to a loss of individual identity.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

I'm 62 and I just realized I've never once entered a room and thought about what I wanted from it. I only ever think about what the room wants from me. And I've been calling that social skills for decades. - Silicon Canals

Self-awareness can diminish when prioritizing others' comfort over personal preferences, leading to a loss of individual identity.
#parenthood
Relationships
fromwww.theguardian.com
5 days ago

This is how we do it: My orgasms have become more intense since I had a baby'

Sexual intimacy is crucial for maintaining personal identity and connection in a relationship after becoming a parent.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

Being in your late 30s and suddenly understanding why your parents stopped having hobbies isn't depressing - it's the moment you realize that the gap between having interests and having the energy to pursue them is a gap that parenthood fills with something that isn't quite sacrifice and isn't quite choice, and naming it would require a word that doesn't exist yet - Silicon Canals

Parental role engulfment can overshadow personal identities, leading to the loss of hobbies and interests beyond mere time constraints.
Relationships
fromwww.theguardian.com
5 days ago

This is how we do it: My orgasms have become more intense since I had a baby'

Sexual intimacy is crucial for maintaining personal identity and connection in a relationship after becoming a parent.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

Being in your late 30s and suddenly understanding why your parents stopped having hobbies isn't depressing - it's the moment you realize that the gap between having interests and having the energy to pursue them is a gap that parenthood fills with something that isn't quite sacrifice and isn't quite choice, and naming it would require a word that doesn't exist yet - Silicon Canals

Parental role engulfment can overshadow personal identities, leading to the loss of hobbies and interests beyond mere time constraints.
Education
fromwww.theguardian.com
5 days ago

A fire that's burning again': Welsh language resurges thanks to adult learners

Elinor Staniforth's journey from disinterest to teaching Welsh reflects a growing trend in adult language learning in Wales.
#child-development
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago
Psychology

People who were labeled 'the easy child' often became adults who confuse having no needs with being low maintenance, and the difference between those two things is about thirty years of unasked questions - Silicon Canals

Easy children often grow into adults who suppress their needs, leading to quiet suffering despite appearing content.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

People who were always told they were mature for their age weren't complimented. They were recruited. And the difference between those two things explains most of their adult exhaustion. - Silicon Canals

Being labeled 'mature for your age' can create a lifelong pressure to meet adult expectations, hindering childhood development.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

People who were labeled 'the easy child' often became adults who confuse having no needs with being low maintenance, and the difference between those two things is about thirty years of unasked questions - Silicon Canals

Easy children often grow into adults who suppress their needs, leading to quiet suffering despite appearing content.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

People who were always told they were mature for their age weren't complimented. They were recruited. And the difference between those two things explains most of their adult exhaustion. - Silicon Canals

Being labeled 'mature for your age' can create a lifelong pressure to meet adult expectations, hindering childhood development.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology says the midlife crisis isn't about wanting something new - it's the moment you finally hear your own voice after decades of executing someone else's blueprint and mistake the unfamiliarity for chaos - Silicon Canals

Midlife crisis often reflects an identity confrontation rather than mere loss, revealing buried personal preferences and voices.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology says the reason most people never truly change isn't laziness - it's that they've built an identity around their flaws that they don't know who they'd be without them - Silicon Canals

People struggle to change not due to laziness, but because their flaws are integrated into their identity, making change feel like a threat to the self.
#transgender
LGBT
fromenglish.elpais.com
6 days ago

What happens when a trans person decides to stop hormone therapy?

Eder Iturralde stopped testosterone after four years, questioning the necessity of hormone treatment while embracing his identity.
LGBT
fromenglish.elpais.com
6 days ago

What happens when a trans person decides to stop hormone therapy?

Eder Iturralde stopped testosterone after four years, questioning the necessity of hormone treatment while embracing his identity.
fromVulture
1 week ago

There's No Justifying This Love Story

Ann says, '[Carolyn] said she didn't recognize who she had become, and now that person will be immortalized forever. I only wish she had lived long enough to be remembered for something else.'
Writing
Portland
fromPortland Mercury
1 week ago

Fertile Ground Celebrates 17 Years with 17 Days and Nearly 100 Plays

Fertile Ground Festival features nearly 100 productions, focusing on themes of outer space and identity from April 10-26 in Portland.
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Narrative Play and Resilience in Early Female Development

Myth-inspired dolls enhance children's resilience and identity through imaginative play and storytelling, offering deeper psychological engagement than traditional toys.
Books
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

Love Lane by Patrick Gale review a homecoming tale with echoes of Brokeback Mountain

Elderly Harry Cane navigates complex relationships and buried secrets as he returns home after years away.
fromKALTBLUT Magazine
1 week ago

Video Premiere: Ivy Rosenauer - Laserheart - KALTBLUT Magazine

'Laserheart reflects my journey of transformation and courage. As a trans woman, this song represents reclaiming my power, my voice and my identity. It's about standing fearless in your truth and turning vulnerability into strength.'
Berlin music
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

I'm 37 and I realized last year that I've been measuring my worth by how useful I am to people - and I genuinely don't know who I am when no one needs me - Silicon Canals

Identity can be heavily tied to being useful to others, leading to a crisis when that role is absent.
#art
Independent films
fromFilmmaker Magazine
1 week ago

More Heart Than a Midnight Movie: Oscar Boyson and Ricky Camilleri on Our Hero, Balthazar

The film Our Hero, Balthazar explores identity and ego through a dark comedy about a teen trying to prevent a school shooting.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

I didn't learn how to rest until I got sick enough that my body stopped giving me a choice, and the terrifying part wasn't the illness. It was discovering I had no idea who I was without momentum. - Silicon Canals

Rest is essential for identity and well-being, contrary to the belief that productivity defines self-worth.
#illustration
#riz-ahmed
Film
fromVulture
1 week ago

Only Riz Ahmed Could Make Bait

Riz Ahmed's projects explore representation and its implications through diverse roles and narratives.
Film
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

Bait review Riz Ahmed's comedy is petty, narcissistic and excellent

Riz Ahmed's new series 'Bait' explores identity and ambition through the lens of a Pakistani Muslim actor facing industry pressures.
Film
fromVulture
1 week ago

Only Riz Ahmed Could Make Bait

Riz Ahmed's projects explore representation and its implications through diverse roles and narratives.
Film
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

Bait review Riz Ahmed's comedy is petty, narcissistic and excellent

Riz Ahmed's new series 'Bait' explores identity and ambition through the lens of a Pakistani Muslim actor facing industry pressures.
Books
fromThe New Yorker
1 week ago

Louise Erdrich on Novels of Parentless Children

Louise Erdrich's recent reading focuses on children's loss of parents, highlighting the urgent stakes of a chaotic world.
fromSlate Magazine
1 week ago

Dolores Huerta Kept Silent to Protect the Man Who Abused Her. I Can Relate. I Did the Same.

Dolores Huerta, at age 88, danced unapologetically with a group of friends at a gay bar, embodying a liberating spirit that challenged traditional views on aging and identity.
NYC LGBT
Remodel
fromApartment Therapy
1 week ago

She Built Her Own Couch for This 533-Square-Foot Los Angeles Rental Studio Apartment

Julia Mata transformed her 533-square-foot studio into distinct functional zones using color and DIY projects, reflecting her identity and creativity.
fromThe Art Newspaper - International art news and events
1 week ago

Textiles weave tales of Palestine's rich but troubled history

Textiles are a window into the communities that created them, with every motif and line signalling a different memory, tradition or identity. Often seen as folk art, these pieces of embroidery and weaving bring together dozens of narrative threads, from Japan to South America. But nowhere is it more fraught with meaning than in Palestine.
Arts
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

The self-deportee' hounded out of the US to Mexico: There are days when I feel literally insane'

Abel Ortiz's visceral reaction to American tourists arguing in Mexico City revealed his complex feelings about identity, as he felt compelled to confront them, saying, 'Not in my country!' despite having spent most of his life in the US.
Independent films
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

Hurvin Anderson review this haunted, hazy, beautiful show is like stumbling through someone's memories

Anderson's washed out, hazy, heat-drenched take on figurative painting is him trying to figure it all out, to make sense of a senseless world.
Arts
Film
fromwww.businessinsider.com
1 week ago

Laura Dern, 59, says getting older changed what she finds 'sexy'

Aging has empowered Laura Dern to embrace her identity and sexuality, challenging Hollywood's narrow portrayal of beauty and vulnerability.
Books
fromSlate Magazine
1 week ago

He Made the World's Largest Jeweled Egg. It Ruined His Business, His Marriage, and His Family.

Kutchinsky's memoir intertwines personal family history with the story of a lost jeweled egg, revealing deeper themes of legacy and identity.
History
fromThe Atlantic
1 week ago

A Surprising Perspective on American Jewishness

Nicholas Lemann's book explores his family's history and its impact on his identity as an American Jew.
fromThe Art Newspaper - International art news and events
1 week ago

British artist Simon Fujiwara tackles Guernica, syphilis and the death of a Japanese pornstar in Luxembourg survey exhibition

This depicts Guernica after the battle. The figures are no longer fighting. They're in a giant pile. They're exhausted and there's a sunrise on a new day behind them. The title of the work is A Whole New World (for Who?). It's asking what's going to happen after the conflicts that we have. Who's going to be taken into that new world?
Arts
Books
fromThe New Yorker
1 week ago

Briefly Noted Book Reviews

Two young women navigate identity and belonging in Jim Crow Louisiana, diverging paths lead to a profound examination of love and family.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

Men who say "we" when referring to their favorite sports team aren't delusional - they've found one of the last remaining places in adult life where belonging is unconditional, identity is shared without negotiation, and nobody asks them to explain why it matters so much - Silicon Canals

Men's identification with their sports teams fosters a sense of community and identity without the need for qualifications or conditions.
Writing
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

Minor Black Figures by Brandon Taylor review portrait of a working-class artist in New York

Brandon Taylor's novel explores themes of isolation, identity, and the struggle of an artist in a post-pandemic world.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Shaming Someone Isn't the Same as Holding Them Accountable

Shaming asserts superiority, silences dissent, and often backfires, perpetuating social control and distorting moral understanding.
NYC music
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

FKA twigs review An Olympian display of pop prowess

FKA twigs showcases her evolution from backup dancer to a powerful solo artist during her first arena performance at Madison Square Garden.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

I'm 64 and I finally understand why my father sat in the car for ten minutes after pulling into the driveway every night. He wasn't on the phone. He wasn't tired. He was transitioning between the person the world required and the person his family needed, and neither one was him. - Silicon Canals

Many men of previous generations struggled with identity, managing societal expectations while suffering in silence.
Digital life
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

There's a specific kind of exhaustion that belongs to people who are fluent in three versions of themselves. One for work, one for family, one for the person they actually are at 11pm when everyone has finally stopped needing something. - Silicon Canals

Fluency across multiple identities is essential in modern life, but it comes with a hidden cost of constant translation.
fromFuncheap
1 week ago

Free Multimedia Concert: Women Crossing/Liminality (SF)

The concert features 'Field of Sorrow,' a new work by Juhi Bansal, which sets translations of landays, women's poetry from Afghanistan, for soprano, cello, and piano.
SF music
Arts
fromVulture
2 weeks ago

The Trouble With Fame, Both Lost and Found: Bughouse and Tru

Two contrasting artists, Truman Capote and Henry Darger, represent different approaches to fame and creativity, highlighting the complexities of self-identity.
NYC parents
fromQueerty
2 weeks ago

Country singer Luke Combs on writing a song supporting queer kids: "I can't imagine feeling the pressure" - Queerty

Parents should support their children's choices without imposing their own expectations.
Women
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

Feminism in Film and the Impact on Women's Self-Perception

Feminist films enhance self-perception by portraying women as complex and human, challenging stereotypes and expanding possibilities for identity and ambition.
LGBT
fromLGBTQ Nation
2 weeks ago

Religion taught them to hide who they are. They overcame & are living wonderful lives. - LGBTQ Nation

Readers share personal stories of conversion to self-acceptance, highlighting struggles with religion and the journey towards embracing their identities.
Music production
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 weeks ago

BTS: Arirang review the world's biggest pop band return with dumb fun and downright weirdness

BTS's music has evolved, moving from K-pop roots to a more westernized sound, yet their new work aims to reclaim their Korean identity.
Podcast
fromFast Company
3 weeks ago

Finding balance isn't an act. It's a choice

Balance requires subtle, continuous adjustments and intentional choices about who to be, not just what to do.
Social justice
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

I'm 44 and I was the first person in my family to go to university-and the thing no one tells you about moving up a class is that you spend the rest of your life fluent in two worlds and fully comfortable in neither - Silicon Canals

Social mobility creates permanent cultural bilingualism where upward movement means distance from origins, never full arrival in either world.
Photography
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"In the Bedroom" by Photographer David Kaminsky

David Kaminsky stages collaborative domestic scenes to reveal how intimacy, conflict, and shifting identities coexist within home spaces across generations.
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