#black-women-spirituality

[ follow ]
#black-women
Writing
fromSilicon Canals
4 hours ago

I'm 66 and the most important relationship of my adult life has been with solitude - not as a consolation for the company I didn't have, but as the place where I have always been most honest, most creative, and most recognizably myself, and I spent too many years being embarrassed about that before I understood it was simply how I was built - Silicon Canals

Solitude allows for self-discovery and personal reflection, free from societal expectations and external pressures.
#spirituality
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

How to Embrace Being "More" Spiritual

Awareness of the transcendent reveals depth and meaning in life, fostering spiritual growth and a sense of oneness with the world.
fromwww.theguardian.com
6 days ago
Philosophy

I don't know what God is. But the search keeps me grounded and feeling alive | Karen Rinaldi

Finding God amidst uncertainty can be a grounding practice during challenging times.
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

How to Embrace Being "More" Spiritual

Awareness of the transcendent reveals depth and meaning in life, fostering spiritual growth and a sense of oneness with the world.
Philosophy
fromwww.theguardian.com
6 days ago

I don't know what God is. But the search keeps me grounded and feeling alive | Karen Rinaldi

Finding God amidst uncertainty can be a grounding practice during challenging times.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

You know a woman has lost her joy in life when she describes her days accurately and without feeling - when the words are all correct and the tone is completely flat and the account of her own life sounds like something being reported rather than lived, and she doesn't notice the flatness because she has been inside it long enough that it just sounds like how things are - Silicon Canals

Emotional flatness can creep in, making life feel like a series of tasks rather than meaningful experiences.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

I'm 66 and I spent forty years trying to stay positive through everything - and what I actually created was a life where nobody knew me well enough to notice when I was drowning - Silicon Canals

Staying positive can lead to hidden struggles and emotional isolation, as individuals often mask their true feelings to appear strong.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

There's a specific exhaustion that belongs to people who spent decades being exactly what everyone needed them to be - and then one day realized they couldn't remember what they needed - Silicon Canals

People-pleasing leads to losing one's identity and can result in profound exhaustion and disconnection from self.
SF LGBT
fromLGBTQ Nation
4 days ago

We especially need to uplift joyous Black trans lives on this Trans Day of Visibility - LGBTQ Nation

Transgender Day of Visibility celebrates Black trans lives and contributions while addressing ongoing violence against the community.
Arts
fromwww.theguardian.com
5 days ago

African people are surreal': songwriter and blues poet Aja Monet on Black resistance and love as spiritual warfare

Aja Monet blends surrealism and blues in her art, addressing themes of love, resistance, and societal absurdities influenced by historical fascism.
fromWomen's Health
4 days ago

They Were Told Wrestling Was Only for Boys. Now, This NYC Club Is Proving Girls Can Fight for Their Futures.

When I step onto the mat, I feel fear, but I remember the countless hours spent in training that helped unearth strength I didn't know I had.
Women
London politics
fromLondon On The Inside
6 days ago

Practical Advice for Rebuilding Your Life After Divorce in London

Life after divorce requires careful decision-making regarding housing, finances, and family arrangements, especially in high-cost areas like London.
fromThe Atlantic
12 hours ago

The Black Daughters of the American Revolution

Karen Batchelor's discovery of her eligibility for the Daughters of the American Revolution was surprising, given the organization's long history of racism and elitism.
Social justice
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

I'm 66 and I finally learned the hardest lesson isn't that people will disappoint you - it's that you'll disappoint yourself by pretending you don't need what you need until you forget what that even was - Silicon Canals

Neglecting emotional needs leads to a profound sense of loss and disconnection from oneself and others.
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 days ago

Women behind the lens: I grew up hating my natural hair. But I transformed that pain into something empowering'

I create sculptural hairstyles using my natural hair as a material. I add some extensions, and shape it with thread and wire. A sculpture can take me from 30 minutes to more than six hours.
Writing
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

When Parts Begin to Merge: Inside Integration

Integration is a complex, lived experience involving reorganization of the self, requiring safety and support systems for healing from complex trauma.
SF LGBT
fromBronx Times
3 days ago

'You saved my life': How one Bronx social worker helps transgender patients recover with dignity - Bronx Times

Asha Lyons provides vital support to transgender patients during recovery, emphasizing the importance of visibility and care in their journeys.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

There's a particular kind of strength that belongs to people who rebuilt their entire personality after 40 - not because something broke them, but because they finally had enough distance from their childhood to see what was never theirs to carry - Silicon Canals

Personality changes after forty often reflect a deeper honesty about one's true self rather than a crisis or breakdown.
fromPsychology Today
4 days ago

Partnership on the Spiritual Path

Devon Hase states, 'People are trying desperately to fix, optimize, or escape their way out of relationship difficulty - and suffering more for the effort. Social media has made this worse! We're surrounded by images of perfect partnerships while quietly drowning in our own ordinary struggles.' This highlights the pressure couples feel in the age of social media.
Mindfulness
Social justice
fromwww.theguardian.com
13 hours ago

Politics of Black hair: why grooming rules are under scrutiny across the diaspora

Disputes over natural Black hairstyles highlight ongoing colonial influences on grooming standards in schools and workplaces across the African and Caribbean diaspora.
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

I'm 37 and I realized I wasn't actually a good person the day my wife said "you're kind to strangers and cruel to the people closest to you" - and the worst part wasn't the accusation, it was that I couldn't argue because I'd been using up all my patience on people who didn't matter and coming home empty - Silicon Canals

Kindness should be abundant at home, not rationed for public interactions, to foster authentic connections with loved ones.
#transgender-identity
SF LGBT
fromAdvocate.com
4 days ago

12 portraits of transgender beauty and resilience in the Deep South

Transgender lives in South Carolina are documented through portraits and conversations, revealing a diverse and complex community beyond prevailing narratives.
SF LGBT
fromSan Francisco Bay Times
1 week ago

I'm a Young Transgender Woman Who is Thriving and Who Owes So Much to My Elders - San Francisco Bay Times

Stories have the power to change perspectives and highlight personal journeys, especially in the context of gender identity and family support.
SF LGBT
fromAdvocate.com
4 days ago

12 portraits of transgender beauty and resilience in the Deep South

Transgender lives in South Carolina are documented through portraits and conversations, revealing a diverse and complex community beyond prevailing narratives.
SF LGBT
fromSan Francisco Bay Times
1 week ago

I'm a Young Transgender Woman Who is Thriving and Who Owes So Much to My Elders - San Francisco Bay Times

Stories have the power to change perspectives and highlight personal journeys, especially in the context of gender identity and family support.
Philosophy
fromThe Conversation
1 week ago

What an ancient devotional text means for the women of Nepal

The 'Swasthani Vrata Katha' is a devotional text central to a month-long ritual performed by Hindu women in Nepal for the goddess Swasthani.
Women in technology
fromFast Company
2 weeks ago

Black women are the fastest-growing group of entrepreneurs

Black women face rising unemployment and workplace discrimination, but are becoming the fastest-growing entrepreneurs in the United States with 13% business growth.
#self-acceptance
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

The people who seem unbothered by what others think of them aren't indifferent. They just moved the audience from external to internal sometime in their thirties and never told anyone about the shift. - Silicon Canals

Calmness is often misinterpreted as indifference; true calm comes from internalizing self-judgment rather than dismissing external opinions.
fromLGBTQ Nation
2 weeks ago
LGBT

Religion taught them to hide who they are. They overcame & are living wonderful lives. - LGBTQ Nation

Readers share personal stories of conversion to self-acceptance, highlighting struggles with religion and the journey towards embracing their identities.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

The people who seem unbothered by what others think of them aren't indifferent. They just moved the audience from external to internal sometime in their thirties and never told anyone about the shift. - Silicon Canals

Calmness is often misinterpreted as indifference; true calm comes from internalizing self-judgment rather than dismissing external opinions.
LGBT
fromLGBTQ Nation
2 weeks ago

Religion taught them to hide who they are. They overcame & are living wonderful lives. - LGBTQ Nation

Readers share personal stories of conversion to self-acceptance, highlighting struggles with religion and the journey towards embracing their identities.
Beer
fromBlackpressusa
2 weeks ago

Sherry Tucker Brown: Forging a family heritage despite being denied another

Sherry Tucker Brown descends from the Dewar Scotch Whiskey founder through her Jamaican grandmother, but her family received no inheritance and refused to purchase the brand as a matter of principle.
Women in technology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

Women over 60 who say they've never been more confident didn't suddenly find self-esteem-they all stopped performing these 7 things that most women are taught to maintain from adolescence onward - Silicon Canals

Women who develop confidence later in life unlearn ingrained behaviors of self-diminishment, particularly excessive apologizing, seeking permission, and minimizing their presence and opinions.
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 weeks ago

Imagine, if everyone had a sex auntie': Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah on tradition as a basis for pleasure

Seeking Sexual Freedom is about rediscovering the rites of passage across African cultures that Nana believes can build new models of sexual freedom. In the book, she asks: Are our Indigenous religions more expansive than the Abrahamic faiths we predominantly practise today? Can we go back to the best of our traditional practices, and use that knowledge as a foundation?
Books
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

I'm 66 and I've stopped apologizing for taking up space - not because I've become rude, but because I finally learned that making myself smaller never made anyone else bigger - Silicon Canals

I spent forty years making myself smaller so other people could feel bigger. Ducking my head in meetings when I knew the answer. Letting louder voices drown mine out. Starting every other sentence with "sorry" like it was punctuation. Last week, I sat in my regular booth at the diner, spread my newspaper across the whole table, and didn't fold it up when the place got busy. Small thing? Maybe. But for a guy who used to practically disappear into walls to avoid taking up too much room, it felt like a revolution.
Miscellaneous
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
6 days ago

Why Sobriety Feels Flat (and How to Bring Back the Spark)

Drinking behavior is driven by habit loops, and removing alcohol without replacing rituals can hinder sobriety efforts.
Social media marketing
fromBuzzFeed
3 weeks ago

17 "Normal" Things Women Quit Doing After They Realized They Were Exhausting

Constant social media posting driven by appearance management creates mental exhaustion that diminishes when motivation shifts from impression management to authentic sharing.
London food
fromTravel + Leisure
4 weeks ago

Breast Cancer Made Me Lose My Identity-Solo Travel Helped Me Find It Again

A woman diagnosed with breast cancer at 34 while living as an expat in Paris takes a final solo trip to London before undergoing mastectomy surgery, confronting loss of identity and bodily autonomy.
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Grief, Loss, Abundance, Joy: Finding Refuge in Harsh Times

Acceptance of loss is essential for emotional balance and finding solace in nature can help mitigate distress.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

I asked 20 women over 65 what they wish someone had said to them in their 40s and not one of them mentioned career advice, health tips, or financial planning-every single one described a sentence they needed to hear from one specific person, and most of them still haven't heard it - Silicon Canals

Women over 65 regret unspoken words from specific people more than practical life decisions, with most never receiving the acknowledgment they needed.
Mental health
fromApartment Therapy
3 weeks ago

How I Found My Way to a New "Me" After Leaving an Abusive Marriage

A domestic violence survivor navigates complex grief after her abuser's suicide, rebuilding her life through therapy and family support while learning to separate trauma from cherished memories.
Arts
fromColossal
3 weeks ago

Mirrors, Iron, and Stone Conjure Ancestral Healing in Olayami Dabls' Detroit Museum

Olayami Dabls founded MBAD African Bead Museum to present African culture through ancestral creation and spiritual healing, rejecting European colonial perspectives in African American historical representation.
LGBT
fromLGBTQ Nation
3 weeks ago

Learning to accept herself as a bi, trans woman only took some space... and Pride patches - LGBTQ Nation

Van's journey from hiding her bisexuality to openly embracing her trans identity demonstrates how community support enables self-acceptance and resilience against family disapproval.
Yoga
fromYogaRenew
1 month ago

She Leads: The Women of YogaRenew & Their Stories

Women yoga leaders emphasize that effective leadership combines emotional regulation with consistency, adaptability to individual needs, and living yoga's principles authentically.
Social justice
fromCN Traveller
2 weeks ago

"Black excellence is everywhere, Black connection is not": Inside the event designed to connect, unite and inspire Black thinkers

The Diaspora Salon in Marrakech convenes African and diaspora intellectuals, artists, and entrepreneurs to discuss culture, power, and economic futures across multiple disciplines.
fromTiny Buddha
1 week ago

Escaping an Abusive Situation: The Hardest Parts and Greatest Lessons - Tiny Buddha

For years, I had absorbed the chaos. I had made myself smaller, quieter, more accommodating. I had convinced myself that if I could just love harder, be better, try more, something would change. But in that moment, watching my child suffer at the hands of the man who was supposed to protect him, I understood with absolute clarity that nothing I did would ever be enough to fix this.
Mindfulness
Exercise
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

My rookie era: in a period of heartbreak, learning to pole dance gave me structure

A second attempt at pole dancing in a smaller, personalized studio environment proved transformative, turning initial negative experiences into confidence-building success.
fromPsychology Today
4 weeks ago

Why Some Women Lift Others Up and Some Don't

When women actively support one another by sharing information, recommending colleagues for opportunities, and amplifying achievements, they help counterbalance these structural disadvantages. These behaviours reflect what psychologists often describe as prosocial leadership—using one's position or influence to help others succeed.
Women
Women in technology
fromwww.aljazeera.com
3 weeks ago

Honouring Gaza's women who refused to let the world look away

Women journalists in Gaza have risked their lives documenting Israeli military operations and atrocities, with over 20 female journalists killed while bearing witness to genocide.
#conversion-therapy
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

The moment I stopped explaining myself to people who had already decided who I was, I got back an amount of energy I didn't realize I'd been spending - Silicon Canals

Attempting to change someone's predetermined perception of you depletes mental energy through cognitive labor, causing measurable physical and psychological exhaustion.
Yoga
fromYoga Journal
1 month ago

Yoga Can Help Remind You of Your Courage. Here's How.

Courage and vulnerability are complementary forces; true strength requires remaining open to pain while honestly confronting uncomfortable truths about ourselves and society.
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

I used to be embarrassed that my mother cleaned other people's houses for a living - and it took me 30 years to realize she understood dignity better than anyone I've met since - Silicon Canals

She looked at me like I'd lost my mind. 'Because I said I'd clean their house, so I clean their house. What's so hard to understand about that?' I thought she was missing the point. Turns out, she was the only one who got it.
Careers
Public health
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Archiving Black Feminist Sex Therapist Dr. June Dobbs Butts

Dr. June Dobbs Butts pioneered comprehensive, culturally-adapted sex education as a Black feminist scholar, connecting sexual health equity to racial justice and training as the first Black sex therapist.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

The Power of the Feeling Wheel

Most middle schools and high schools do not have a requirement to teach Social Emotional Learning; therefore, most high school students have less than two years of SEL learning, which was given to them when they were three and four years old. The result is that most adults do not have formal social and emotional learning skills, and yet they are expected to have emotional intelligence.
Mental health
fromwww.amny.com
1 month ago

NYC dance studio builds space for women to reclaim their confidence through movement | amNewYork

When I came to America I tried a lot of classes and 90% of them, even if a class was for beginner level, were really difficult. I was thinking, if I were a grown woman who just decided to start, I'm going to get trauma, it's so hard, it's so competitive, and I [said], I need to create something dedicated to women, without this pressure, without this judgmental vibe.
Women
Relationships
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

It's my F-you ring': why divorced women are transforming their wedding jewelry

Women are repurposing engagement and wedding rings into 'F-you rings' as a defiant celebration of independence following divorce, reclaiming the value of the jewelry while rejecting relationship expectations.
Women in technology
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

My sexual freedom odyssey: what ancient African wisdom can teach us about pleasure today

Traditional kitchen parties in Tanzania, led by experienced women educators called somos, teach brides-to-be about seduction, marriage maintenance, and self-care, though these practices have become diluted by Western influence and colonialism.
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

I watched my wife stop explaining herself to everyone after she turned 50, and what happened next changed how I see every woman in my life - Silicon Canals

For thirty years, I watched this woman explain every decision she made. Why she worked part-time when the kids were young. Why she went back full-time when they were older. Why she didn't want to join the PTA. Why she did want to take that art class. Always explaining, always justifying, always making sure everyone understood her reasons. Then she turned fifty, and it all stopped.
Women
SF LGBT
fromSan Francisco Bay Times
1 month ago

Fourth Annual Honoring LGBTQ+ Bay Area Black Women Leaders & Allies - San Francisco Bay Times

The San Francisco Bay Times and Oakland LGBTQ Center will host the fourth annual Honoring LGBTQ+ Bay Area Black Women Leaders & Allies awards ceremony on February 26, 2026, at The White Horse Inn in Oakland, recognizing fifteen individuals across multiple fields and generations.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

My grandmother raised 6 children alone with no money and no help - and she carried a quiet philosophy about hardship that psychologists are only now putting into words - Silicon Canals

Resilience develops through focusing on controllable factors, maintaining a growth mindset, and finding meaning in adversity rather than viewing hardship as defining.
fromBuzzFeed
2 months ago

Moms Are Sharing The Ways They're "Breaking The Cycle" With Their Daughters

I never speak negatively about my body or my appearance in general when talking with my 9-year-old daughter. I am trying to model positive body image, self-esteem, and self-love for her. When I was growing up, my mother was always very self-critical, self-conscious, constantly complaining about her body and her flaws, and I had to work pretty hard to undo her negative programming.
Parenting
Medicine
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

How Therapists Can Advocate for Black Women's Health

Sudden, severe medical crises can be terrifying, unpredictable, and occur despite healthy living or prior treatments, sometimes resulting in misdiagnosis, recurrence, or progression.
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

Divorce rings: why women are celebrating their breakups

Name: Divorce rings. Age: Relatively new. British Vogue is reporting that they are a thing. And if it's in Vogue the chances are it's in vogue. Appearance: You know, they go on a finger, generally made of metal, might include a gemstone or two. So, not unlike an engagement ring, or a wedding ring? Physically similar maybe, but ideologically different. Because it marks not hitching but unhitching? Not just marks, but actually celebrates. It's fun rather than miserable, jewellery designer Annoushka Ducas told Vogue.
Fashion & style
Film
fromLGBTQ Nation
2 months ago

These 10 essential movies about Black people with HIV will open your heart & mind - LGBTQ Nation

On-screen representation of people living with HIV remains extremely limited across platforms, with especially poor representation of Black people and few meaningful portrayals.
US politics
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

Renee Good Was the Kind of Person I Should Be

A compassionate legal observer, Renee Good, was fatally shot during an ICE raid, underscoring dangers faced by immigrant-rights defenders and personal moral urgency.
Media industry
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

Two women, no boundaries and no rules: best podcasts of the week

Recommended podcasts range from comedic rambling and music documentaries to generative AI's impact on employment, cancer legacy conversations and youth violence prevention.
Arts
fromBerlin Art Link
1 month ago

An Interview with Tabita Rezaire | Berlin Art Link

Tabita Rezaire's art examines healing, colonial power structures, and knowledge hierarchies, reclaiming restorative practices across bodies, digital culture, and ancestral cosmologies.
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

Quote of the day by Michelle Obama: "You should never view your challenges as a disadvantage. Your experience facing and overcoming adversity is actually one of your biggest advantages" - Silicon Canals

Not so long ago,I found myself staring at my laptop screen, unemployed for the third month straight. The media industry cuts had claimed another victim, and that victim was me. At first, I told myself it was just a temporary setback. But as rejection emails piled up and freelance gigs barely covered my rent, I started wondering if this was less of a speed bump and more of a dead end.
Careers
Parenting
fromNew York Family
1 month ago

Matrescence: How to Reclaim Your Identity After Motherhood

Matrescence transforms women into mothers, altering identity, body, emotions, and priorities; recovery requires boundaries, self-rediscovery, help, and self-compassion.
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

It's an opportunity for bonding' my quest to become a Black dad who can do his daughters' hair

Managing curly hair, once you know how, is easy, Roberts says. It really is. It's easier than trying to hide it anyway. The curly hair in question isn't mine but that of my two daughters, aged three and four-and-a-half. After months of screaming and unsatisfying results, I've taken it upon myself to learn the basics of caring for their hair, which is a combination of my mixed-race afro curls and my wife's straighter Spanish locks.
Fashion & style
Mental health
fromwww.bbc.com
1 month ago

I used to hate my appearance. Here's how I learned to accept it

Body Dysmorphic Disorder can severely disrupt daily life through obsessive preoccupation with perceived physical flaws, leading to isolation, compulsive behaviors, and significant emotional distress.
LGBT
fromAdvocate.com
2 months ago

How a Black-led, queer-affirming church is thriving in the South

An LGBTQ-affirming Black Pentecostal church in Atlanta grew from a living-room gathering into a diverse, politically engaged spiritual and civic hub amid rising anti-LGBTQ attacks.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

How to Validate Your Black Woman Client's Experience

Countertransference can cause therapists to invalidate Black clients' experiences, contributing to avoidance of mental health treatment.
Mindfulness
fromScary Mommy
2 months ago

Women Are Sharing The Most Unhinged Woo Woo Things That Have Changed Their Life

Experimenting with unconventional 'woo woo' rituals can provide simple, low-risk ways to reduce stress and increase feelings of optimism and control.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Patriarchy, Religion, and the Myth of "Real Sex"

"No, not yet. I am waiting until I am serious with someone, and until then, I am only doing oral and mutual masturbation. My reply, "That is sex!" This usually gets a response of, "Well, I meant f*cking," which they equate to sex. Nothing else. I have to remind my clients that fellatio and cunnilingus is called "oral sex" for a reason. That is still sex."
LGBT
fromwww.bbc.com
2 months ago

Why women are taking their anger out in rage rooms

"There was definitely a moment of discomfort at the start," says Deena, but she says her visit to a so-called rage room felt very different to what she'd expected. She didn't feel chaotic or aggressive smashing things up, but instead "surprisingly controlled and a lot more intentional". "Once I settled into it, it felt like more of a physical release as opposed to an emotional outburst," she told the BBC.
Mental health
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

From Fear to Choice: How Empowerment Self-Defense Changes Lives

Empowerment self-defense gives practical options, reduces fear, builds confidence, restores voice, and can profoundly transform personal safety and well-being.
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Fight the Power, One Breath at a Time

Chronic stress narrows focus, drives short-term coping, and platforms that profit from outrage amplify stress to increase consumption and fear-based behavior.
Mental health
fromScary Mommy
2 months ago

The World Feels Like It's Ending, But We Still Need Some F*cking Whimsy

People increasingly seek whimsy and small pleasures to relieve anxiety and exhaustion amid global crises.
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

8 quiet signs someone has been through tremendous pain but came out with genuine wisdom instead of bitterness - Silicon Canals

People who alchemize suffering develop quiet strength, listen deeply, validate others without centering themselves, and offer presence instead of unsolicited advice.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

The Road From Rebellion to Reverence

By the time people reach their seventh decade, they have learned many lessons. From a psychological standpoint, they understand what really matters. They have learned what to let go of. They know what they need to be happy. They also acknowledge the importance of being kinder to themselves and how relationships and experiences are more important than possessions. They tend to reflect on lessons learned and often recover more easily from adversity. They also focus on wanting the best for their loved ones.
Mindfulness
[ Load more ]