Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
1 day agoHow to Embrace Being "More" Spiritual
Awareness of the transcendent reveals depth and meaning in life, fostering spiritual growth and a sense of oneness with the world.
#zen-5
#zen-5
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Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
12 hours agoPsychology says people who mellow out as they get older aren't the ones who suffered less - they're the ones who decided, at some point and without always knowing they were deciding, that the suffering was going to make them more open rather than less, and that decision, remade daily in small ways that nobody notices, is the entire difference - Silicon Canals
Emotional responses to life's challenges can change over time, leading to greater peace and stability despite ongoing difficulties.
Writing
fromSilicon Canals
11 hours agoI'm 66 and the most important relationship of my adult life has been with solitude - not as a consolation for the company I didn't have, but as the place where I have always been most honest, most creative, and most recognizably myself, and I spent too many years being embarrassed about that before I understood it was simply how I was built - Silicon Canals
Solitude allows for self-discovery and personal reflection, free from societal expectations and external pressures.
#identity
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
17 hours agoPsychology says people who feel like they've been living someone else's life aren't confused or ungrateful - they're often the ones who were so good at adapting in childhood that they never stopped adapting long enough to find out who they actually were - Silicon Canals
Adapting to others' needs in childhood can lead to feeling disconnected and lost in adulthood.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
22 hours agoI spent a decade building a career I thought I wanted, a house I thought I needed, and a persona I thought would finally make me real - and one Saturday morning over coffee I sat with the quiet certainty that I had built all of it for someone who no longer lived inside me - Silicon Canals
Building a life based on societal expectations can lead to a personal crisis when the facade becomes unsustainable.
#yoga
Yoga
fromYoga Journal
3 days ago15-Minute Slow Yoga to Boost Your Energy
Slower, purposeful yoga movements can effectively boost energy and create sustainable vitality.
Yoga
fromYoga Journal
2 days agoExhausted? These Are the 5 Best Yoga for Sleep Practices on YouTube.
Yoga practices can help ease the transition into sleep by allowing the body and mind to slow down.
#happiness
Writing
fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoI'm 66 and I spent four decades chasing the version of happiness I saw in other people's living rooms - and the day I stopped, I noticed I'd been happy in my own kitchen all along - Silicon Canals
Measuring happiness against others' lives leads to perpetual dissatisfaction and obscures personal contentment.
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
2 days agoPsychology says the most important life lesson isn't learning to make better decisions - it's learning to live peacefully with the ones you can't undo - Silicon Canals
Irreversible choices shape our lives and learning to coexist with them is crucial for mental well-being.
#emotional-neglect
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 days agoI'm 66 and I finally learned the hardest lesson isn't that people will disappoint you - it's that you'll disappoint yourself by pretending you don't need what you need until you forget what that even was - Silicon Canals
Neglecting emotional needs leads to a profound sense of loss and disconnection from oneself and others.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoI meditated every morning for three years and I was still the most reactive person in every room I walked into - and a monk in Thailand told me the problem wasn't my practice, it was that I was using stillness as preparation for chaos instead of learning to find stillness inside the chaos itself - Silicon Canals
Emotional neglect occurs when parents provide materially but fail to be emotionally present for their children.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
4 days agoThere's a version of retirement happiness that nobody puts in the brochures - it's not the traveling or the golf or the grandchildren visits, it's the first morning you wake up and realize you have absolutely no one to impress and the relief of that lands in your chest like something you've been waiting your whole life to feel - Silicon Canals
Retirement brings a profound realization of freedom from the need to impress others.
#loneliness
Writing
fromSilicon Canals
2 days agoI'm 66 and the loneliest I've ever felt wasn't after my children left or my friends moved away - it was the morning I woke up and realized I had nothing that needed me, nothing that depended on my showing up, and the whole day stretched ahead like a road with no destination - Silicon Canals
Loneliness can stem from feeling unnecessary, not just from being alone.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 days agoPsychology says the people who actually escape loneliness don't do it by finding more people - they do it by finally dropping the version of themselves that made real connection impossible in the first place - Silicon Canals
Loneliness stems from a lack of genuine connection, not merely from being alone or having many acquaintances.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days agoPsychology says if you want your 70s to be the best years of your life you have to stop doing something most people don't quit until it's too late - and the quitting isn't dramatic, it's just the daily decision to stop measuring yourself by a standard that was always someone else's and never actually yours - Silicon Canals
Measuring worth by external standards leads to dissatisfaction; true value comes from personal fulfillment, not societal expectations.
Philosophy
fromThe Conversation
2 weeks agoThe long history of silent meditation retreats and the individuals who helped shape them
Burmese meditation master Sayagyi U Ba Khin's 10-day silent mindfulness retreats became a foundational model for secular meditation practices now widespread in the United States.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
5 days agoI used to be unhappy and I blamed everything around me - until I realized I'd built an entire life around avoiding the one conversation I needed to have with myself - Silicon Canals
Unhappiness often stems from avoiding self-reflection and attributing life issues to external factors rather than personal choices.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoResearch suggests the calmest people in any room aren't naturally calm - they once had the most chaotic inner world and built stillness the way someone builds a house around a wound, one deliberate wall at a time - Silicon Canals
Calm is constructed through experience and understanding, not an inherent trait or genetic gift.
fromYoga Journal
1 week agoAre You Breathing Wrong? Here's How to Get More Out of Your Inhalations and Exhalations.
The human neuroendocrine system has changed very little since the time of cave people. Yet today we are likely to receive more stimulation in one day than our ancestors did in their entire lifetime.
Yoga
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days agoPsychology says the reason some people become wiser as they age while others become more rigid has nothing to do with intelligence. It depends on whether they ever learned to sit with discomfort - Silicon Canals
Distress tolerance influences how individuals respond to discomfort, shaping their openness and adaptability in life.
fromPsychology Today
4 days agoPartnership on the Spiritual Path
Devon Hase states, 'People are trying desperately to fix, optimize, or escape their way out of relationship difficulty - and suffering more for the effort. Social media has made this worse! We're surrounded by images of perfect partnerships while quietly drowning in our own ordinary struggles.' This highlights the pressure couples feel in the age of social media.
Mindfulness
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
4 days agoThe difference between people who actually change their lives and people who just talk about it almost always comes down to what they do in the first 90 seconds after waking up - Silicon Canals
The first 90 seconds after waking significantly influence the rest of the day, often leading to reactive behavior if not managed properly.
fromAlternative Medicine Magazine
1 month ago7 Easy Tips for Grounding to Reduce Anxiety
In today's fast-paced world, stress and anxiety have become constant companions for many of us. It may feel impossible to get out from under our fears, worries, and other distressing thoughts. That's why learning how to get grounded is so important. Keep reading to discover seven quick and easy grounding techniques to reduce anxiety and help you enjoy a more peaceful, joyful life.
Alternative medicine
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks agoUsing a Beginner's Mind
Beginner's mind, rooted in Zen practice, enables conscious observation of present moments through widened perception, revealing unique interrelationships and sustaining well-being by treating time as an active verb rather than static noun.
fromhttps://www.arogyayogaschool.com/blog
1 month agoThe Overstimulated Mind: What Yoga Philosophy Teaches About Inner Balance
At the heart of yoga philosophy is the belief that stillness is not simply the absence of movement, but a profound engagement with our inner landscape. Practices such as asana (postures), pranayama (breath control), and meditation serve as gateways to this stillness, allowing us to cultivate awareness amidst chaos. Through these disciplines, we learn to quiet the mind's incessant chatter and tune into our true essence.
Yoga
fromYoga Journal
2 months agoHow to Quiet Your Mind, According to Yoga
Popular definitions of yoga often include terms such as balance, harmony, health, and peace. While these qualities are certainly desirable, and must be created before one can enter the state of fixity, or yoga, they are not included in the definition Patanjali offers us in his Yoga Sutras, the classic second-century B.C. exposition generally accepted as the bible of yoga.
Yoga
fromYoga Journal
2 months ago5 Best Morning Meditations on YouTube to Start Your Day
Let's be honest: people place a little too much pressure on mornings. You've heard the advice. "Develop a morning routine!" "Set intentions!" "The quality of your entire day hinges upon what you do immediately after waking up!" It's not that this is bad advice. It's just a little perfectionist-y. And chances are, your real life mornings don't feel as picturesque as Cinderella waking up and having a family of bluebirds bathe and dress her.
Mindfulness
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
1 month agoIf your goal is peace, say goodbye to these 9 "normal" habits that keep your nervous system on high alert - Silicon Canals
Everyday habits can keep the nervous system in chronic survival mode; eliminating reactive behaviors restores calm and reduces persistent anxiety.
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